I will try and keep it simple..
Mom has ignored all requirements of the Court Orders, so in 2009, I asked for a Minor's Counsel to be put into place, it was granted. MC has flipped sides 4 times since, has favored mom for last 2 years. I have 2nd and 4th weekends with our 7 year old daughter. We have shared Legal and Physical Custody.
Here are the issues..
1. Mom does NOT follow the Court Order for release of Medical and School information, skips Court Ordered pne calls, has made up false claims against me (all were found to be false) and has even moved my daughter without notifying me or the Courts. Mom is in her 3rd live-in relationship in the last 5 years in which my daughter was moved and mom refuses me to meet the "new" guy.
2. When I ask mom about the School events, Report cards, medicines given, etc, etc.. MC accuses me of being demanding and aggressive and demanding for asking. I never get the info and have missed School events, etc. I have 100's of emails ASKING, but MC always speaks for mom and I never get help in an unbiased manner.
3. If I send an email to my ex (mom) asking for information about ANYTHING, MC responds and speaks on mom's behalf in a tone that is demeaning toward me and protective of mom not following the Order. In short, MC is enabling mom.
4. I have been to Court 15 times, over 60 documents filed and now we are scheduled for an EVIDENTIARY HEARING on April 3rd, 2012 based on the issue stated in #3. I have never LOST a case as PRO-PER, but now (based on what MC says) my Custody is in question, again.. because I want the mom to follow the Orders.. all I want is to know my daughter is safe, getting the medical care that any good parent wants and not be alienated.
The MC is <redacted> and is based in the LA County Court system.
Any suggestions on how to...:
A. Get the Courts to see the bias and lack of follow through of MC
B. Show the CAUSE AND EFFECT that mom is causing by not following the Orders and alienating me.
PLEASE HELP
Mom has ignored all requirements of the Court Orders, so in 2009, I asked for a Minor's Counsel to be put into place, it was granted. MC has flipped sides 4 times since, has favored mom for last 2 years. I have 2nd and 4th weekends with our 7 year old daughter. We have shared Legal and Physical Custody.
Here are the issues..
1. Mom does NOT follow the Court Order for release of Medical and School information, skips Court Ordered pne calls, has made up false claims against me (all were found to be false) and has even moved my daughter without notifying me or the Courts. Mom is in her 3rd live-in relationship in the last 5 years in which my daughter was moved and mom refuses me to meet the "new" guy.
2. When I ask mom about the School events, Report cards, medicines given, etc, etc.. MC accuses me of being demanding and aggressive and demanding for asking. I never get the info and have missed School events, etc. I have 100's of emails ASKING, but MC always speaks for mom and I never get help in an unbiased manner.
3. If I send an email to my ex (mom) asking for information about ANYTHING, MC responds and speaks on mom's behalf in a tone that is demeaning toward me and protective of mom not following the Order. In short, MC is enabling mom.
4. I have been to Court 15 times, over 60 documents filed and now we are scheduled for an EVIDENTIARY HEARING on April 3rd, 2012 based on the issue stated in #3. I have never LOST a case as PRO-PER, but now (based on what MC says) my Custody is in question, again.. because I want the mom to follow the Orders.. all I want is to know my daughter is safe, getting the medical care that any good parent wants and not be alienated.
The MC is <redacted> and is based in the LA County Court system.
Any suggestions on how to...:
A. Get the Courts to see the bias and lack of follow through of MC
B. Show the CAUSE AND EFFECT that mom is causing by not following the Orders and alienating me.
PLEASE HELP