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anyone have any suggestions? please help

yes. and that is what i am doing, but i am looking to do and be with my child more. i have done everything they have asked. there is no reason why i should be supervised after all this time. they are paranoid that i will take her away from them and have scared my child with these words. i am looking for a way up and out of my current situation, there must be something i can specifically ask for, someone i can talk to, or something i can do besides the right thing one day at a time... i keep getting sorry can't help you. their delusions and poisoning of my daughters mind is ruining our relationship. i want to be reunited with her, they do not, but it shouldn't be up to them! I'm seeking justice in Jesus name! please help me, anyone, point me in the right direction.

we were all going to counseling separately. i was released after 1.5 years because i refused pay her for a letter she wrote. so it seems its all about the money. since then i have tried to reach out, even getting a different counselor, who released me since they wouldn't work with him and because of my "solid recovery" Otherwise i get info about her school and activities via 3rd party. I'm never directly involved.

(without me being informed)

i was looking into a law guardian, but hit a dead end... they allow a 3rd party to evaluate only when dyfs is involved (my case is closed), it really stinks. idk what to do or who to turn to. every time i file they tend to inform the baby too much.. . at 1 point (with me being informed) she was having nightmares and behavioral issues, and didnt want to see me or talk to me on the phone. i'd like to file for what i feel is righteous but i fear their insecurities will affect my child.

i do not have a court date pending, i would have to file. last time was in early January '12. keeping me abreast of all affairs is written in the court order, but they do not comply, i have told the judge and the mediator. i've asked for holidays, my stepmother makes up her own rules and no one cares. i have been filing my own paperwork but nothing seems to work, looking for a different way, maybe a parent or custaody evaluation, a probono lawyer or something anything, my daughter is suffering

they do not included me in her activities outside of my parenting time. My daughter says well i wanted to tell you, but mommy won't let me. yes they have convinced her to call them mommmy and daddy... i make every visit, on time, every time, i have countless photos of us having fun together...

i've been paying child support for almost 2 years, have had a steady job for almost a year; prior to that i was getting laid off in the winter. i have a 3br home with 1 room dedicated to my daughter. they do not want me to get her back, i have shown countless supportive paperwork: substance evals, drug tests, letter from work and church and people in aa, counselor reports, volunteered for parenting classes... they have a lawyer and i have been pro-se, they keep asking for baby steps. then they accused me of something ridiculous and i lost time... now its been 7 months and nothing has changed... it seems that no one wants to step up and give me a chance, even the mediator doesn't understand.

I lost custody of my daughter at 6 months due to a substance abuse issue. She just turned seven and i will be celebrating 4 years recovery at the end of the year. She has been living with my father and his wife; there is no father on my child's birth certificate. The trouble that I have been having is that every time i go to court i am denied. the counselor they go to will not speak to me. my step mother was never able to have a child of her own and wants to raise mine. my father does nothing and my mother lives in AZ. I am alone in this matter. my child is continually brain washed by my sick family and i am getting no where. Unfortunately i don not have the money for a lawyer and do not qualify for legal services. I want custody back before my daughter goes down the same path i did and many others before me. I'm still supervised in public with no reason. please help.