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Iowa State Forum / father needs advice
Apr 14, 2013, 06:34:12 PM
i have been trying to work things out with my ex.  it has been only a few months since our split and we have a son that turns 1 year old in may.  she is planning on moving out of state in june or july.  we have no legal custody agreement.  we have had very civil dealings to this point but when i explain that i do not want to lose my son for her to move thousands of miles away she does not budge.  my son is better off with her.  as far as living arrangements it would be a no brainer.  i am not using illegal drugs but have in the past.  i am currently unemployed.  i do not want to let my son just leave my life when he has no way of making the decision himself.  i want to fight to be there for him.  what is my best course of action here?  i do not want a uncivil dealing with my ex.  i still love her.  i still want us to be a family.  i dont know what to do.  please help...