Yes they are divorced. My husand is remarried with myself and we have 2 other kids here with us besides M. We do have an original court/divorce docs. I don't know what it says regarding the child but we will be sure to review it. I think it just states that the exwife cannot leave the country with M without his auth. But i would think that since she signed off on M having residency, its like he has a right to have her living here. Thats kind of where we are getting worried. Thanks for advice regarding keeping records. I think that is key.