My ex wife and I do not speak much at all, and most communication is done via text messages or emails.
Brief history we have been seperated/ divorced for the majority of my child's life. My child is in elementary school. I tried to gain primary custody when she tried to relocate to another state, but the judge did not find sufficient reason to change custody arrangements. My child now lives two hours away and comes to my house alternate weekends. We have joint custody and she is primary custodian.
The court papers say she is to notify me of school events, meetings, problems, doctors visits, etc. My child has had some chronic medical conditions. She occasionally will inform me of of what was said after the doctor visit, or when she sends a copy of the bill. I have requested to be notified in advance so that I can attempt to attend, but realistically, it will be hard to go to many appointments or meetings. But I would still like the opportunity.
I would simply like to be notified if my childs medicine is changed, or if there is a school event or if there is a problem at school. I have made a final request to her. ANd she has admitted on text and email that she doesnt have time to notify me of everything going on, but if she has time to schedule an appointment, I would think a quick message to notify me is not out of the way. She is also a stay at home mom.
I do not make threats, or harass her, and often will avoid confrontation all together, but it is slowly getting worse. I would rather not talk to her at all, but I understand I have no choice until my child is older. I try to keep all conversations documented electronically so there is proof of what has been said, but she is a compulsive habitual liar. She is dangerous having a clinical psychology license, despite being unemployed. She knows the right things to say.
My next step will be to notify my attorney. I just need to know if you have any suggestions that might help my case.
Brief history we have been seperated/ divorced for the majority of my child's life. My child is in elementary school. I tried to gain primary custody when she tried to relocate to another state, but the judge did not find sufficient reason to change custody arrangements. My child now lives two hours away and comes to my house alternate weekends. We have joint custody and she is primary custodian.
The court papers say she is to notify me of school events, meetings, problems, doctors visits, etc. My child has had some chronic medical conditions. She occasionally will inform me of of what was said after the doctor visit, or when she sends a copy of the bill. I have requested to be notified in advance so that I can attempt to attend, but realistically, it will be hard to go to many appointments or meetings. But I would still like the opportunity.
I would simply like to be notified if my childs medicine is changed, or if there is a school event or if there is a problem at school. I have made a final request to her. ANd she has admitted on text and email that she doesnt have time to notify me of everything going on, but if she has time to schedule an appointment, I would think a quick message to notify me is not out of the way. She is also a stay at home mom.
I do not make threats, or harass her, and often will avoid confrontation all together, but it is slowly getting worse. I would rather not talk to her at all, but I understand I have no choice until my child is older. I try to keep all conversations documented electronically so there is proof of what has been said, but she is a compulsive habitual liar. She is dangerous having a clinical psychology license, despite being unemployed. She knows the right things to say.
My next step will be to notify my attorney. I just need to know if you have any suggestions that might help my case.