What Texas has been doing was long arm jurisdiction through administrative writs. They did not register the child support order - which was what we were expecting from everything we've read. Texas also started garnishing my salary.
We were later told by a lawyer that Texas should and/or would (it was all unknowns back then) send it to State C and they did eventually get to it and sent the order for enforcement to State C. I am full and constant cooperation with State C since they contacted me. They were straightforward, and said that it will be registered there, unlike Texas who was just trying to collect and get payments without registering the order.
Now, I have to solve the problem of two payments: Texas is still garnishing my wages, and I have started paying directly to State C when they required it.
State C is in contact with Texas, yet Texas still sends notices of payments and arrears. State C has also accepted proofs that I am current.
Looking up tying the visitation order to this now. Since these all happened, ex has given every excuse not to let me talk or see my child.
Mixed bag, regarding that guy in AL which you also sent me the link to, there is more to the story, yes I do believe that. Right or wrong there is always MORE to every one's story. But the stick we end up being measured against, in this area, is not objective. States do get more funding for every case they successfully close and even if you've been diligent in following your court order, so many other problems can arise. In a call to the state's child enforcement agency to follow up our case (even before they actually received it) I was basically told that if you don't follow what they say, you'll end up in trouble.
It is hard to deal with all these but this is for my child - that's what keeps me going.
Thanks for all the replies MixedBag and Ocean.
We were later told by a lawyer that Texas should and/or would (it was all unknowns back then) send it to State C and they did eventually get to it and sent the order for enforcement to State C. I am full and constant cooperation with State C since they contacted me. They were straightforward, and said that it will be registered there, unlike Texas who was just trying to collect and get payments without registering the order.
Now, I have to solve the problem of two payments: Texas is still garnishing my wages, and I have started paying directly to State C when they required it.
State C is in contact with Texas, yet Texas still sends notices of payments and arrears. State C has also accepted proofs that I am current.
Looking up tying the visitation order to this now. Since these all happened, ex has given every excuse not to let me talk or see my child.
Mixed bag, regarding that guy in AL which you also sent me the link to, there is more to the story, yes I do believe that. Right or wrong there is always MORE to every one's story. But the stick we end up being measured against, in this area, is not objective. States do get more funding for every case they successfully close and even if you've been diligent in following your court order, so many other problems can arise. In a call to the state's child enforcement agency to follow up our case (even before they actually received it) I was basically told that if you don't follow what they say, you'll end up in trouble.
It is hard to deal with all these but this is for my child - that's what keeps me going.
Thanks for all the replies MixedBag and Ocean.