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My son's father NEVER changed a diaper. He would leave my son in a poop diaper or a very loaded pee diaper until I got home and changed it. That's not stepping up to the plate. I have my mom, sister and step dad that all said that every time I went to take a shower my son would start crying and he would yell at my son who was 8 months old at the time and tell him to shut the fuck up! I do not trust his father with him for one second. I have no idea what I am suppose to do at this point.

I had my son July 24, 2012. His father and I were living together since I found out I was pregnant. His father has never changed a diaper, never gave him a bath, never made a bottle for him, never changed his clothes. April 5, 2013 his father pushed me with our 17 month old son in our arms and my son's head smacked the door.  I also have a 3 year restraining order against my son's father. He also smokes marijuana and snorts cocaine. I am not sure what other drugs he does. He lives across the street from me and I have witnessed him buying drugs off of people about 2 or 3 times.We have custody hearing on January 30, 2014.
My question is, due to the fact that their is a restraining order in place and they there was abuse towards my son does he still have legal rights to get any visitation? And since my son is not currently potty trained can he still get my son every other weekend? I live in Philadelphia and I can not find anything about what age my son has to be for his father to get him. Because it states in the restraining order can he still see my son?