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Thank you so much for the replies. We live in California. To be honest, she is not a good mother. She stated it in a response to a evaluation of income for child support. She attached in writing she intends to file a move away and change child support to increase it. She already told the children they are moving and they are in counseling and have just started to stabilize. So we don't know if she filed the exact paperwork but she put it in writing and attached it to a child support document. They had court today and the judge ordered a continuance because he said they didn't have proper documentation and that was all that was discussed. She is emotionally abusive to the kids:(

My boyfriends ex wife has just stated she is going to move his 2 kids to 3 hours away. They have 50/50 custody, 1 week on and 1 week off and have for 3 years. All of their family lives here, both sides. She wants to move because her boyfriend moved away to this city. She states she is moving and that she wants the kids to love in the same house while in school and that she wants them school days and then he can have them every Friday Saturday and Sunday every week. The children would have to be in a car after school for 3 hours, spend only Saturday really with dad and turn around Sunday for another 3 hour drive every week! He is an amazing father, Very involved in school activities, Has gone to every softball game, award ceremony, mom attends nothing school related at all. We don't even know where to begin. The kids just started therapy a few months ago and have made extreme progress and the therapist has stated the mother gives children anxiety because of her manipulative behavior. Mother has also already told the kids they are moving.... So lost and scared. Any advice is helpful.