My Fiance and I are trying to get a protective order against his ex-girlfriend. She is extremely aggressive when we exchange the child for visitation and in the past our tires have been slashed 15 time and our truck keyed. We know it was her but have nothing to prove it yet because she is extremely careful what she says to us involving this matter.
The last exchange she came to our house 30 mins early and the child answered the door and my fiancé grabbed the child and then his ex grabbed her too and they played tug of war. He had his foot behind the door trying to close it but then she inserted her foot into the door and pushed it open still pulling on the child.
we stated that she was early and not taking her and she said "she doesn't want to be with you she wants to come home to her mommy". We finally let go of the child and she changed her clothes in front of our door.
we then stated it wasn't the childs decision to go home and his ex said she didn't care. We then called the police and they told us there wasn't anything we could do because our new mediated parenting plan had not yet been signed by a judge. His ex later then emailed us saying we threatened her and If it happens again she will do what is necessary.
this women will stop at nothing please we need some advice because our lawyer hasn't been much help. We want a protective order but then how do we make exchanges ?
The last exchange she came to our house 30 mins early and the child answered the door and my fiancé grabbed the child and then his ex grabbed her too and they played tug of war. He had his foot behind the door trying to close it but then she inserted her foot into the door and pushed it open still pulling on the child.
we stated that she was early and not taking her and she said "she doesn't want to be with you she wants to come home to her mommy". We finally let go of the child and she changed her clothes in front of our door.
we then stated it wasn't the childs decision to go home and his ex said she didn't care. We then called the police and they told us there wasn't anything we could do because our new mediated parenting plan had not yet been signed by a judge. His ex later then emailed us saying we threatened her and If it happens again she will do what is necessary.
this women will stop at nothing please we need some advice because our lawyer hasn't been much help. We want a protective order but then how do we make exchanges ?