My girls do not want to live with him, they prefer the every other weekend. The oldest wants to be near her friends and does not want to change schools. He lives about 20 miles away. His justification is that I remarried and I live in a 2 bedroom home and my daughters are forced to sleep in the same room with my 20 month old son and my husbands son. This is a lie. First of all, my new husband does not have any other children besides the one I have with him which is the 20 month old. Second, my 20 month old sleeps in the same room with us. We are planning to buy a house. The only true reason my ex is taking me to court is that I filed taxes with my daughters and another reason is that I moved on with my life, remarried and had another child.