My husband and I have been married for 4 years, but have had ongoing issues for the past year or so. I caught him cheating on me with men and transsexuals last year. We have tried to work through it for the children, but yesterday, I found evidence that he has continued this lifestyle behind my back while we've continued to "work" on things. We have two children 2 & 3.
I have been staying home with them full time for the past year and a half. Before that, I was the only one working in our home. He is gone Mon-Wed 8-9 pm, Thurs 8-5, Fri 12-4 and sometimes Saturdays. The only option I have to separate from him is to move back home with my family in South Carolina. We currently reside in North Carolina. The house we live in is in his name, though I know that since we acquired it during our marriage, it's considered a marital asset. Anyhow, my intention is to file for a custody order and go through the process so I can be able to move into my parents' home.
Some of the proof I found shows that he was inviting these affairs over while he was home with the children. This causes me great concern! If we get joint custody, will the courts understand this concern or am I just going to have to deal with the fact that he could have whoever over having sex with them in his home while the children are there? I'm going to be pushing for full custody and supervised visitation as I don't genuinely trust him alone with the children. Is there any chance the courts will even consider his sexual deviance to protect our children?
My head is just spinning right now. I don't even know where to begin. I couldn't care less about what we each get (material wise), and I couldn't care less about child support, spousal support, etc. I just want my babies to be safe!!
I have been staying home with them full time for the past year and a half. Before that, I was the only one working in our home. He is gone Mon-Wed 8-9 pm, Thurs 8-5, Fri 12-4 and sometimes Saturdays. The only option I have to separate from him is to move back home with my family in South Carolina. We currently reside in North Carolina. The house we live in is in his name, though I know that since we acquired it during our marriage, it's considered a marital asset. Anyhow, my intention is to file for a custody order and go through the process so I can be able to move into my parents' home.
Some of the proof I found shows that he was inviting these affairs over while he was home with the children. This causes me great concern! If we get joint custody, will the courts understand this concern or am I just going to have to deal with the fact that he could have whoever over having sex with them in his home while the children are there? I'm going to be pushing for full custody and supervised visitation as I don't genuinely trust him alone with the children. Is there any chance the courts will even consider his sexual deviance to protect our children?
My head is just spinning right now. I don't even know where to begin. I couldn't care less about what we each get (material wise), and I couldn't care less about child support, spousal support, etc. I just want my babies to be safe!!