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Its hard for me to be as involved as I would like to be. I'm up at 4am for work and usually home around 3:30-4 pm. I can take off work early if I need to but because the kids are with her during the week I get very little info about school. I haven't spoken a word to her in about 5 weeks. It always turns into being about her. I try to steer the conversation back to being about the kids. It usually end with her getting mad and then refusing to speak to me.
The neglect police report and a letter from her apartment complex got me emergency custody for 3 days at which point the judge ga e them right back to her. Police reports involving child neglect automaticly go to Cps. They interviewed both of us and did nothing.

I can post all the issues I have with the ex but I don't want it to sound as if I'm just here to bash her. It's about the kids for me. that's all I care about. all the things she does some of them big things in my opinion doesn't seem to matter to the courts. I kinda get it but it's very irritating that I cannot break even the slightest rule without repercussions.

The daughter is 3 and the son is 7. I am new to all this divorce stuff but I figured that the courts would make her play by the rules just like I have to.  I was wrong.