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Thanks I'll call the lawyer first thing.  What are the chances I get the custody order if I go to the courthouse?  One thing in unsure of is we live in one county now, next week we move to another.  If I go to the courthouse here will I have to continue coming here or will it transfer?   My appt with lawyer is at 2pm and is 3 hours away. 

Why do people act like this?  They totally lose site of what's important, the child.  Now I don't know what to do, she came back, didn't move back in all her stuff is still gone, she's naturally not gonna let our daughter out of her site.  Just being spiteful, like I'm gonna run off somewhere.  I live here she's the one that bailed.  Anyway I don't see anyway of getting to the lawyer now.  Can't leave my daughter she'd be gone, and unless I take my wife to my appointment I'm screwed.  Plus to top it all off my mom starts chemo next week for breast cancer.   Dealing with a very selfish person here.   

Gonna be a very long 48 hours, and very hard to do the court/lawyer thing.  just like me she's gonna keep her eye on savanna, thinks I'm gonna run off.  Don't see anyway to get that much alone time, I'd have to take her with me.   One thing is for sure, she's not leaving this property with that baby.

Thanks for the response.  Daughter is 3, and yeah I'm not letting her out of my sight.  Last night got a txt saying that if I won't let her take her she will just move back in, but we are still moving, which was planned before all this happened.  There will be no residence in my current location it will go back to our old address where I still own the house.  As I'm typing this she actually showed up with her friend, says they're all staying here.  nightmare.

I apologize if this has been asked but my time is somewhat limited for answers.  So here it goes in short. This morning I found out my wife planned on leaving with our daughter after I had left for work, basically sneaking her out while I was gone.  I felt something was up and when I asked if she would be home when I got off she said no.  At this point I told her she could leave but without our child.  She called the sheriff to try and force the issue and was told that she could leave but could not take our daughter.  She loaded up her stuff and left, now she still wants me to let her take our daughter for a few days, she staying at a friends I don't know.  I have an appt with an attorney Monday.  My question is what can I do to protect my daughter from being taken?  My fear is I won't get her back.  I've told my wife she is free to come back while we process the paperwork or just visit if she wants.  But I don't trust her to just handover my daughter.  Any advice out there?  Thanks in advance.