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actually the child never received CS payment as ordered by the court, in 9 years $ 1500 total

have not request any increase

The child is doing just great is receiving love -care  attention,education stability -respect,is just  fulfilled,

its not removing  when the ncp was never present is keeping the normal life

a parent absence happen in life  could be due death, sickness, or many other reasons how those kids do ? sometime a presence in not necessary a benefit/a plus, it is detrimental/not adequate  for the kids growth those adult children could very much agree on that. specially when parents abuse the kids to arm the other parent .
Why they do that ? well for sure is not normal

Parents are referral points for the kids growth in terms of emotional behavioral respect/regulatory
a huge responsibility many fail not sure why maybe they are not ready to be parents other ways will not make any sense why couple living together with kids, so parents both present in the kids life but they don't know them at all and the kids need a therapist
so far my consideration to the study

I am not sure about those studies you mentioned -this  case is very singular the ncp had a pretty much similar issue in a prior marriage-


I was looking to have more a legal input that personal opinions which considering the very little info shared
are unfourtunally adequate

you doing good !

No contact since 9 years that means zero !

the ncp lives far from us I can file an injunction to the DV considering the strong interest showed recently
ncp no job, not to make for a living at least according to the financial affidavit statements,
the child knows what happened and he is in peace with that and he was in metal distress several times
No needs to aggravate the child again just to give a revenge chance to the ncp

yes was filed in court for parenting time and child support modification after 9 years.
but no evidence of substantials changes have been proofed from the ncp
My intention is to oppose to the supervised visitations also
the child is no showing any kind of  interest to the ncp

Well seems a clear case
here we go very briefly a long family ordeal :
the child at age 2 was kidnapped internationally several times,The non custodial parent changed the child name and his using make passports,then  the non custodial parent incarcerated
but the child do not known the other parent last time they met was 9 years ago.

the non custodial parent never tried to contact the child but recently due the custodial parent child support request
the parent instinct wake up-maybe most of you knows- if the court awarded a time sharing the child support payment goes up /down accordantly to.the non custodial requested custody modification.
I am sure the time share is not going to be awarded but maybe the supervised visitation which I believe is detrimental and not the best child interest to have contact with some one who is able to alienate the child and destroy the child peaceful balanced life
Now is no necessity to proof the right and wrong is it's done but how to make sure that the past is not going to be whipped off the non custodial has a pattern of abusive violent behavior-and very unethical past.
I am confided that those elements are essential but my attorney has a different opinion -past is past- people change-
I believe the nature is the nature a Lion can non become a kitty!
Thanks