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Not 15 court appearance more like a hundred, me solo v. 15 frims as my ex is actually a "malicious Mother" & "obessive alienator" at a minimum, she also has a great many other issues all dating back to her early menopause where she literally "talked to dead people".
The money spent on an overabundance of opposition counsel has been to conceal these conditions, as there has never been forensics, not 1(one) hearing on my case since I filed 6 yrs. ago.

Getting my childrens records is simply a baby step in that direction as hopefully this case shall be heard, someday, if I can find a  desent court, and a Honest Judge whom is not biased, and gives a pro-se litigant some respect, as opposed to being told to shut up for years, directly and indirectly.  As far as hiring a attorney for $100.00 for letter writting, not in this area.  Minimum retainer for anything is 10k.  Understand divorce here is a HUGE BUSINESS, with everybody raking in the big bucks, even the judges, as some have been caught, then slapped on the wrist, no jail time for fixing divorce cases, as they police themselves, what a crock!

I do not know where u r, but be happy it was not here, NYC Supreme Court and Family Court is a CORRUPT, NASTY, SEWER, Not an Institution to be proud of, where nice people always finish last, and the children worse. And the Attorneys here are complete S.B.'s, lying in court (perjury), removing papers, faking service, commiting fraud, and yes they get away with it as: they police themselves.

Just a BAD system, for GOOD people...maybe I should join them and get somewhere for a change. lol, but I would do better if I could behave the way they do.  Wish I had it in me.

I am still looking for ways to get school and medical records without a attorney, any IDEAS?
Thank you, sorry for the rant.
Ken

ref,  (sorry, I am new and thought I was on a Fathers only forum)

I do apologize if u take in personal regarding the fact that in ny, the Lawyers-the Judges, even in the appellate division Justices all belong to a group called LeGAL.  That is thier choice and I do not hold it against them. But that is the way it is here.
 What I do find is a problem when they work together to deprive (people) me a man in this case our fundemental "liberty interests" to be involved in our children's lives via terrible decisions (in my case).
  My only thought for many years now as to why? Is answered by this affilliation, which me and others are currently seeking a Federal RICOH suit against, they perform like a private cabal here in NY
  In my case the beforementioned are TERRIBLE at what they do, and should be removed, as they are terrbly biased against straight men, and have no clue whatsoever regarding children, and thier basic needs.
Yes I do have gay friends, and some of them are the best and brightest people I know,  but that is not the issue.
I have been outlawyed 15 to zero, as I am not a lawyer, and getting slayed in the process (I believe), others in the know, say I have done remarkably well considering the sharks & S.B.'s opposing me, charging $500.00 per hour.  The only reason I have held my own is simple I AM RIGHT! And have squeeky CLEAN hands.  I AM a CHAPLAIN, F.D. and FEMA.
I will take some of the advise offered re: records but would like to know for shure if FERPA covers private practice doctors, I read it and do not think it applies.  My main thrust here is to find out how to compel both Dr.'s and Schools to provide stipulated records without filing multiple suit like some nut. I do not want to deal with attorneys, ever.

And Yes, she is and has been hiding the fact that my children live elsewhere, is why she will not produce records as stipulated as they would confirm all those suspicions.

Ken

Plus she cares not for thier welfare.

I wish you were my Ex, no offense but what I ahve been up against for 11 years (including the bad marriage) has been very painful for me and mine.

Ken

Thanks, but how do I do that, (post elsewhere?)

 Chaplain Ken

Thank You for your quick response!

Yes I have done all that plus more regarding the school and his primary doctor (where i pay $1500. per mo. 4 fam med.).  at this point I really WANT to sue both, under FERPA I believe.
But I am not shure it applies to medical records although I do have a stip., stating she should produce, will it hold up against the dr.'s non-compliance.  

I have only seen my kids for 2 hrs. now in 6 years vs. 15 shark attorneys, while pro-se.

I am very angry and really want ot bust chops, beyond trying to assertain my son's medical and scholastic status's.

I appreciate any and all ideas.  BTW I live in New York State, where LeGAL runs the courts (lesbian and gay association of lawyers).

Thanks, Chaplain Ken

I am a non-custodial father but it is stipulated that the ex provide all records etc, 6 years now nothing recieved.  I have written both school and doctors several time each, certified etc citing the FERPA regs, to no avail!
  They live 400 miles away so I cannot simply walk in, furthermore she serves phony orders of protection almost every time I try to see my son in "Her Town".
She is hiding the fact that my son lives with her parents, these records would prove such stealth custody.
At this point I would like to sue these institutions for rights violations in Federal Court.

Can I?  And any clue as to how?

Thank You, Ken