Sorry people but I need to vent about the family law system in Oklahoma. I have a friend that has been but off by the court system since 2002 off and on. This time around 3 months ago the judge said get a parental coordinator. He has been denied visitation all together a total of one and half years worth.
So they get a coordinator that tells him that the child is brainwashed and that he sould sign is rights over so he concentrate(sp?) on his other children. What is up with that!!! He told her no and she told him is ex is saying he has a problem with liquor and she (the ex) is requesting that he have an evaluation done. The man may have a beer once a month. This women (the ex) get by with everything. She has not even once got in trouble by the judge. The judge just keeps making them change parental coordinators and try again. How long can this go on before the judge has to say look here is the order and you will follow it?
Some time I know he thinks that maybe giving up would be what is best for his child. All this fighting is not doing her any good. The child is told all the time that he does not care about her. He never calls her and he does all the time, the ex just will not answer the phone.
Any advise????
So they get a coordinator that tells him that the child is brainwashed and that he sould sign is rights over so he concentrate(sp?) on his other children. What is up with that!!! He told her no and she told him is ex is saying he has a problem with liquor and she (the ex) is requesting that he have an evaluation done. The man may have a beer once a month. This women (the ex) get by with everything. She has not even once got in trouble by the judge. The judge just keeps making them change parental coordinators and try again. How long can this go on before the judge has to say look here is the order and you will follow it?
Some time I know he thinks that maybe giving up would be what is best for his child. All this fighting is not doing her any good. The child is told all the time that he does not care about her. He never calls her and he does all the time, the ex just will not answer the phone.
Any advise????