I am a sm and nm. I am on both sides. My dh is supposed to have children eow during summer. ex has signed dss up for summer school and dsd doesn't wan't to leav dss alone. we had planned a family trip for the week we were suppose to have them. Am I wrong to be angry at dh and his ex? dh for not standing up to his ex? then ex for getting her way in not letting kids see us via "summer school". dsd doesn't want brother to be sad if she comes to visit (ages 8 & 10). I guess I am just sad and angry we could have easily have helped dss in subject as I excelled in subject and so did dh. This is hurting kids, dh and myself? any suggestions?