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Could someone please clarify what the term "concede" means before I get into details about my situation. I hope it does'nt mean what I think it does. Thanks for any information.  < Lost & Frustrated

I have waited long enough I suppose. I'm not much of a forum poster, but here goes. My son who was born out of wedlock has been in the state of Connecticut for 8mos.. He was taken there by my Ex GF without my knowledge under cover of night in the beginning of Oct. 06. He was 4 months old. In August of that same year I hired an attorney because I knew that it was going to be a struggle to have a relationship with my son. I could clearly see it coming.I had no idea she would leave the state we lived in(FLA). From the time she was pregnant it was a hard road, but I managed to hang on as long as I could. I can give specifics as to why it was so difficult if anyone would like to know. It's a very long list. I had to bring police officers to the house just to see him and gather some of my belongings and was told by officers that I didnt have to leave,but it would be in my best interest. Needless to say this has been the worst thing that has ever happened to me in my entire life, not to mention my 12 yr. old daughter's as well since she hasnt been able to develop a relationship with her brother as of yet. My newest dillema is the reason I am here. I have read all of your posts everyday until my eyes bleed and I have learned quite much. Many thanks to all of you. Anyway, she(Ex GF) is planning a visit here in FL at the end of May. The last week. My Atty has made a mediation appointment for the friday before she is to leave. I begged to have the appt. made for the friday when she arrives but according to my atty this isnt possible. She has no intentions of letting me see my son for more than 2 hrs at a time and has made it clear that her itenerary(SIC) doesnt include any quality time with my family to interact and bond with our son. Grandmothers,Great Grandmothers,sister,cousins,aunts and uncles are of no concern to her,not to mention myself,his father. Are there any types of emergency visitation that I can make happen and enforce  before she arrives? My atty seems thwarted. After 8 months with no custody/visitation/child support order in place ,I am just a little desperate obviously. Any help would be greatly appreciated. This woman(EX GF) has dragged this situation out until it feels like an eternity has passed since I have seen my son. I have been patient with my atty but nearing the end of my rope. Thank you for reading this......JK in FLA