My husband and I moved out of state 2 years ago with our three children for a better job opportunity. My husband has an 11 year old son that resides in NJ. We/he were granted five weeks parenting time in the summer, alternate Christmas, Easter, and Thanksgiving each year. We also pretty much have visitation whenever we go back to NJ but of course that is easier said than done. Prior to our move my husband had 4 weeks in the summer but the ex was "entitled" to two dinner visits each week. That was because at the time of divorce my SS was 4 and she cried she could not go a complete week w/o seeing him. Now the ex wants to decrease the summer because "its just not working out". She wants to make it three weeks with us having opportunity to visit in NJ. She is also planning on signing him up for a sport that practices in the summer also that he has to back for the sport. She feels the sport and him spending time with his friends is important. I can agree to a point but isn't the relationship with his father and siblings more important? Does she have a leg to stand on here? I appreciate any input!
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