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Massachusetts State Forum / legal question
« on: May 27, 2006, 06:02:44 AM »
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Child Support Issues / use of child support money??
« on: Feb 29, 2004, 05:27:24 AM »
Does anyone know if there are any rules regarding what your ex
spends her child support money on?

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Dear Socrateaser / a legal question
« on: May 27, 2006, 05:53:12 AM »
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Dear Socrateaser / Can she do this???
« on: May 25, 2005, 05:02:54 AM »
 
Long time Soc, but once again need your help.
Divorced 2/03  shared custody.
Live in MA

I have an outstanding lawyers bill and am wondering if it is
legal or ethical for a lawyer to charge interest on my account.
She was with a firm that I used, now she is no longer with them,
and took my outstanding account with her...she was my lawyer
in my proceedings??????

My new wife has an outstanding lawyer's bill, and they don't
charge her interest...


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Dear Socrateaser / I FINALLY WON ONE....A THANK YOU NOTE
« on: Nov 20, 2004, 04:59:33 AM »
DEAR SOC

THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR ADVISE ON THE RO, AND WE DID JUST
THAT....(LIE DETECTOR)

JUST THE THOUGHT OF HER "MIGHT" HAVING TO TAKE ONE IF MINE
WAS NEGATIVE...SHE BACKED AWAY AND SAID SHE DOESN'T SEE
ME AS A THREAT...

THE JUDGE PRESSED HER ON THIS..(LIE DETECTOR) AND ASKED IF
SHE WOULD BE WILLING TO TAKE ONE AND IF SHE THOUGHT I WAS
ANY THREAT TO HER AT ALL, AND SHE FINALLY ADMITTED THAT I WASN'T, AND THE ORDER WAS LIFTED.

THIS IS THE FIRST ONE WENT IT MY FAVOR AFTER 2 1/2 YEARS.

ANOTHER COMING UP IN DECEMBER...CHILD SUPPORT RECONFIGURATION BECAUSE OF MY NEW JOB.

I HAVE ONE QUESTION ABOUT THIS, BUT WILL WAIT UNTIL YOU
GET BACK.

MY THANKS AGAIN FOR YOUR ADVISE...HAVE A GREAT VACATION.

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Dear Socrateaser / Lied to get RO
« on: Oct 26, 2004, 06:30:58 AM »
History:  divorced 1/04
Custody: shared eow and Tuesday night
Ex filed 209a 3 months ago...LIED in court and said I was in
her house at 1:00 in am...ABSOLUTELY A LIE..never ...never...
She was upset with me for filing for her to pay 1/2 of the taxes on
my 401K which was in the settlement agreement..She received
half of my 401K, and I am asking her to pay 1/2 of the taxes on
it because she received the 1/2 the money, and I feel she should
pay 1/2 the taxes....ANYWAY...this item will be addressed in Dec.
court date.

I have not violated in ANY way this unlawful RO (because it was
granted without any proof whatsoever,,,,just her word...LIE..LIE..LIE

I have just been employed with a new job and this 209a that was
filed in Probate Court in MA is harming my ability to be cleared in
some projects because of security rules...also is harming
me to coach my son in sports (which I have done for years).

Now the court hearing (a return hearing for this 209a) is to be this mo.
A very good suggestion by you a few months ago when I explained this
was to offer a "no contact" order, but was unable to do this because of the court it was filed in...this was filed in Probate and they do not have
"no contact" orders.

1. Without having to go through the appeals process, which I cannot afford, is there some other way of getting rid of the this "LIED to GET"
RO??

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Dear Socrateaser / getting rid of that RO
« on: Oct 21, 2004, 06:06:21 AM »
History:  divorced 1/04
              custody:eow and Tues, nights
              Ex filed 209a 3 months ago..LIED in court because
              she was upset about me filing for her to pay 1/2 of the taxes on my 401K. (which will be addressed in Dec court date)
           
         
    I have not violated the restraining order in any way.

I have just been employed with a new job and this 209a that was
filed in Probate Court in MA is harming my ability to be cleared in
some projects because of security rules.....also it is harming me
in coaching my son in sports (which I have done for years).

Now the court hearing (a return in 3 mo.) is to be this mo.  o contact' thing because of the court it was filed in.
(good suggestion by you a few months ago)...

1. Without having to to go through the appeals process (which I cannot afford) is their some other way of getting rid of this thing?





















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Dear Socrateaser / she's done it again
« on: Sep 29, 2004, 04:12:10 PM »
History..divorce Jan 03
Unemployed from April  04 - September 04 with severance
Arrears from July 04

We sold the marital home and closing is tomorrow and today  she walked into a courtroom and put a "something" on the proceeds of the house into
escrow...somebody is couching her...never heard of such a thing.

This would really mess me up, because I need that money to rent a
new place...and because of my credit had to pre-pay ahead

1.  What is this called

2.  Can she actually put a hold on all the money?  (judge said she could)?

3. How do we counter this...?

4.  How long does this hold last...could we get it off the same day?

I have no problem with putting what is owed in arrears in escrow, but
for the judge to say that it is ok to put all proceeds in escrow is
really a 'biased judge'.

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Dear Socrateaser / Update on RO
« on: Aug 29, 2004, 08:47:37 AM »
Thanks for advise...on RO

What actually happened was she told a BIG lie at the hearing,
and my lawyer said it was a big lie, but in the end she (the judge)
kept the RO on me for 3 more months, and then revisit.

She claimed I was in her house at 1:00 in the morning and she
saw me there...the judge asked...weren't your doors locked, she
said yes, but I didn't push it tight...

With that "new" lie she was able to keep this thing going for another
3 months,,,and my only hope is that this does not prevent me from
getting a new job that has very good prospectives...

1.  Do employers usually check to see if there is a RO on you?

2.  Is this considered a criminal offense?

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Dear Socrateaser / restraining order
« on: Aug 19, 2004, 03:32:34 PM »
history...divorced 1/04

have children eow and Tuesdays

My ex has just served me with a restraining order saying
I want to 'kill' her...(absolutely rediculous).

This is a 'payback" for me taking her to court to get
reimbursement for her half of things that will be left
at the home when the home is sold...(replaced pool filter
and had to put in a new dishwasher)which stays in the home... had to take her
to court for her to sign the purchase agreement.

Well, trying to brief, so in the meantime of getting the purchase
offer signed, tring to get reimbursement, the people who made
the offer had the home inspected, and now because of repairs
to it are offering less, and my ex says she will not sign again...
and now she put a restraining order on me because she said I
made threatening accusations to her on the phone...ABSOLUTELY
NOT TRUE.

I pay the mortgage and she is very vindictive (wants me to
suffer financially with the mortgage, so we will be on the
same field...both in apartments...AND SHE WAS THE ONE LEFT
AND LEFT THE KIDS WITH ME...somethng is wrong here....

If this doesn't end soon...I'm going to lose the house

I live in the marital home...

Questions:
1. How can I fight this restraining order?

2.  How can I drop off the children without going 100ft from
her house?

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