Hi: Is it just me or the laws in NYS are made mostly to defend the women. No offense
tended, and I mean it... My son's wife walked out on leaving behind
her three children from three previous relationships and also their 5 year old child.
She came home one evening and by midnight she left with another man. Now she
comes around when she wants to and takes the youngest child and takes the child
with her to stay over her boyfriends house. I am sick to my stomach, that a mother
should bring a child to a new boyfriends house, and I understand that she has the
right to do that. She obviously trust my son to leave her kids and their child behind.
I don't quite understand why there is not a law that would stop her from bringing
this 5 year old child to her new boyfriends house. I mean if this would be a serious
and long time relationship, I feel that it would be fine, but this child know only his daddy he finds himself going to a strangers house... Here is the thing, the child does
not want to go and so the mother starts crying and by the end of her theatrics the
little child says that he will go if one of his older siblings agree to go... At which time
the 11 year old child agrees to go to appease the 5 year old. The other two older
ones refuse totally to go with her. One child is 23 and the other 17 and they have
made up their minds that they had it with the mom always and refuse to go because
my son has been the only man that has taken care. She has done this 3 times before but the relationships did not last 12 years like it lasted with my son and so the kids feel
that my son is the only dad that they have really known. All of the other dads are
out of the picture and so my son has raised them. She has done this 3 time before
which makes it 4 times. The only difference between all this son has really been a
Daddy to her kids and my son married her.
And she now owns a piece of the pie. Which that does not bother me at all, and
it does not bother my son. My son's only concern is the children.
This is such a travesty of justice here that this women can bring the little child to
her new boyfriends house just like that. This happened like three weeks ago the
children are devastated and so is my son. Well this sound more like am venting
or that I am taking the side of my son. Well, he is my stepson and I always try to
things like they are, but this very Narcicistic women ate the cake...
We have gone thru hell
with this women, and we always kept our mouth shut no matter what she did,
just so that this marriage would not break up, because of the children. I cannot
believe the things that this women has done, which I cannot go into details.
But I ask to any one who can answer; why do the laws seem much one sided, it seems
that I have searched everywhere on the internet to see if there is something about what happens when a women abandon the children and the home and I have not found anything...
Yet, I find it for women. Again, I retiriate I am a women, but I wish that there
would also be justice for men... If anyone can help me out, please let me know,
I will appreciate it. I know that shortly my son is going to get a lawyer, but in the
mean time can someone tell me enlighten me. My son is so much in despair that
he can't see the forest from the trees right now. Thank you, Genesis
tended, and I mean it... My son's wife walked out on leaving behind
her three children from three previous relationships and also their 5 year old child.
She came home one evening and by midnight she left with another man. Now she
comes around when she wants to and takes the youngest child and takes the child
with her to stay over her boyfriends house. I am sick to my stomach, that a mother
should bring a child to a new boyfriends house, and I understand that she has the
right to do that. She obviously trust my son to leave her kids and their child behind.
I don't quite understand why there is not a law that would stop her from bringing
this 5 year old child to her new boyfriends house. I mean if this would be a serious
and long time relationship, I feel that it would be fine, but this child know only his daddy he finds himself going to a strangers house... Here is the thing, the child does
not want to go and so the mother starts crying and by the end of her theatrics the
little child says that he will go if one of his older siblings agree to go... At which time
the 11 year old child agrees to go to appease the 5 year old. The other two older
ones refuse totally to go with her. One child is 23 and the other 17 and they have
made up their minds that they had it with the mom always and refuse to go because
my son has been the only man that has taken care. She has done this 3 times before but the relationships did not last 12 years like it lasted with my son and so the kids feel
that my son is the only dad that they have really known. All of the other dads are
out of the picture and so my son has raised them. She has done this 3 time before
which makes it 4 times. The only difference between all this son has really been a
Daddy to her kids and my son married her.
And she now owns a piece of the pie. Which that does not bother me at all, and
it does not bother my son. My son's only concern is the children.
This is such a travesty of justice here that this women can bring the little child to
her new boyfriends house just like that. This happened like three weeks ago the
children are devastated and so is my son. Well this sound more like am venting
or that I am taking the side of my son. Well, he is my stepson and I always try to
things like they are, but this very Narcicistic women ate the cake...
We have gone thru hell
with this women, and we always kept our mouth shut no matter what she did,
just so that this marriage would not break up, because of the children. I cannot
believe the things that this women has done, which I cannot go into details.
But I ask to any one who can answer; why do the laws seem much one sided, it seems
that I have searched everywhere on the internet to see if there is something about what happens when a women abandon the children and the home and I have not found anything...
Yet, I find it for women. Again, I retiriate I am a women, but I wish that there
would also be justice for men... If anyone can help me out, please let me know,
I will appreciate it. I know that shortly my son is going to get a lawyer, but in the
mean time can someone tell me enlighten me. My son is so much in despair that
he can't see the forest from the trees right now. Thank you, Genesis