My wife and I have been separated, by her choice, since September. Since that she has given me dating rules such as waiting 3 months before introducing anyone to our 4 year old daughter and waiting until being married or at least engaged before having someone spend the night while she is here. When my wife came to pick up my daughter and met the girl I had been dating for less than a month she threatened to get a lawyer.
She started dating someone about 3 and a half months ago. Within a month she had broken all rules that she had given me and has asked her mom or sister to take our daughter for the night on several occasions so she can go out with her new boyfriend. Also within that first month she spent most nights at his house. She has our daughter during the week since I have worked nights since her birth to avoid the cost of daycare. Therefore she brings our daughter with her. The past few months she has been sleeping on the floor of the boyfriends room while my wife and her boyfriend are in the bed. They recently "officially" moved in (after only 3 months, met on a dating site) and my daughter was given her own room. Today my daughter told me that his best friend has been staying and she is back to the floor in the boyfriends room.
My question is about if this is appropriate or not? When I bring it up my ex cusses and defends everything she does because, of course, she is never wrong nor can do any wrong. Is this inappropriate and should anything be done?
She started dating someone about 3 and a half months ago. Within a month she had broken all rules that she had given me and has asked her mom or sister to take our daughter for the night on several occasions so she can go out with her new boyfriend. Also within that first month she spent most nights at his house. She has our daughter during the week since I have worked nights since her birth to avoid the cost of daycare. Therefore she brings our daughter with her. The past few months she has been sleeping on the floor of the boyfriends room while my wife and her boyfriend are in the bed. They recently "officially" moved in (after only 3 months, met on a dating site) and my daughter was given her own room. Today my daughter told me that his best friend has been staying and she is back to the floor in the boyfriends room.
My question is about if this is appropriate or not? When I bring it up my ex cusses and defends everything she does because, of course, she is never wrong nor can do any wrong. Is this inappropriate and should anything be done?