my ex claimed our son on his taxes this year. he's had him a total of about 1.5 months out of the year by himself last year, and i've had my son 5.5months out of the year, the rest of the year, we were together. according to the IRS website, he had no right to claim him, i did, but my taxes just got denied. i know i need to appeal it, but how do i appeal it, what kind of documentation is needed, and what are my next steps? i can't ever seem to get through to the IRS to ask these questions.
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Custody Issues / Moving for better opportunities
Feb 05, 2011, 02:20:10 AM
my ex husband and i have a 2 year old son together. we do not have any formal court order of who gets him when, we worked it out ourselves that we switch back and forth every week. we have not gotten the divorce yet. however, i have an opportunity to move into a better area, with a job and a better house.
the father has a job currently but only works 20hours a week and can barely pay the bills, in fact has to choose between paying gas or electric this month, and can only pay half at that, not to mention he lives in a dangerous area that has gangs and shootings, ect, he literally lives in the ghetto. granted, i don't have a job. but i have one waiting for me in new mexico as well as a stable home that is also waiting with family members of my boyfriend. i know that in kansas i have to send the father a written notice no less than 30 days before the move to the last known address, but i know he's moved and refuses to give me his new address so i can send it to him. i can still send it to the last known address but i know for a fact that he doesn't live there.
not to mention that i got my son on october first of 2010, and it's now february 4th of 2011 and he's seen his son for a grand total of about 30 minutes. he refuses to come see his son simply because the boyfriend is around, but the boyfriend has been helping to take care of his son for this entire time! i know if i get a temporary full custody paper that i can legally take my son to new mexico to give him a much better life.
however, from what i'm reading if i send the written letter to the last known address and he doesn't respond or appeal since he doesn't live there, does that mean i'm clear to take my son since he wont give me his new address?
any information would be GREATLY appreciated as i've searched for hours online and am not getting any clear answers.
the father has a job currently but only works 20hours a week and can barely pay the bills, in fact has to choose between paying gas or electric this month, and can only pay half at that, not to mention he lives in a dangerous area that has gangs and shootings, ect, he literally lives in the ghetto. granted, i don't have a job. but i have one waiting for me in new mexico as well as a stable home that is also waiting with family members of my boyfriend. i know that in kansas i have to send the father a written notice no less than 30 days before the move to the last known address, but i know he's moved and refuses to give me his new address so i can send it to him. i can still send it to the last known address but i know for a fact that he doesn't live there.
not to mention that i got my son on october first of 2010, and it's now february 4th of 2011 and he's seen his son for a grand total of about 30 minutes. he refuses to come see his son simply because the boyfriend is around, but the boyfriend has been helping to take care of his son for this entire time! i know if i get a temporary full custody paper that i can legally take my son to new mexico to give him a much better life.
however, from what i'm reading if i send the written letter to the last known address and he doesn't respond or appeal since he doesn't live there, does that mean i'm clear to take my son since he wont give me his new address?
any information would be GREATLY appreciated as i've searched for hours online and am not getting any clear answers.
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