I am being accused of haveing no contact with my children since June 2010 to date. I have phone records that I have made many phone calls and sent text messages. My custody agreement states I am to have the children over summer vacation. I could not take them this year due to a car wreck i was in and broke my neck and I have TBI a brain Injury due to this.I have been unable to work since this happend Dec. 2011 so i have not been able to pay support since then. My ex husband is trying to have the judge rule that I have no contact with the children untill my back support is paid. that I have to go under a mental evaluation through the military and pay for it. He wants Sole custody.
He quit answering my phone calls quite some time ago. So I have no contact at all even though I still try to contact them. They reside in California, I was in the area for a couple months and wanted to see the children he stated he would call the cops if I showed up.
I called my son once and the first thing he asked me is mom why dont you pay your child support, He is 8.
I have recieved many nasty text messages from him. i.e. over xmas he stated in one I will tell the children you sent nothing and that the stuff came from someone who cares.
I have done nothing wrong, and do not deserve to be excluded from my childrens lives. I am doing Court Call to California I reside in Virgina now. I guess my main question is how do I submit my medical records and proof of phone records to the judge since i am doing court call and have no Lawyer. He does
The lady from the child support division called me and said she could not belive his alligations it was the weirdest thing she had ever seen, and that she could not even talk or reason with him.
Im kind of at a loss as how i need to present my case on my own I dont want to loose custody of my children because I was hurt in an accident.