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I found out Friday that DS7's father is moving to Nebraska, he hasn't told his case worker in MO about the move, this is coming after AR sent out a request for action to MO for contempt of court. The reason he's in contempt is because NCP (as I'll call him) and gf decided to have a baby, took the money needed to pay child support on three other children and used it to pay new baby hospital bills. Now don't go thinking I'm mad cus NPC had a new baby, I'm not; I think he should do what makes him happy but not forget his other kids.
But now he's moving to Nebraska and I am curious as to how I can get the ball rolling on child support again, do I notify my case worker that he is relocating and tell them the company he is working for? Or do I sit back and wait to see if he makes a payment? Oh and would his moving to Nebraska make the child support go through that states OCSE? And NCP is taking the child he has custody of with him, I hope for that sweet girls sake he told the mother cus I can't stand to see DS7's little sister given back to her mom.

Thanks in advance for the help.

First I have to start out by saying that I haven't a clue where to put this because it bundles a few issues altogether.

So the starting issue is CS order tells NCP to pay a set amount weekly in CS, this is paid sporadically. In recent months I have received only a small portion of the total monthly CS. NCP states that $200 a month is an adequate amount to cover all my child's needs. (Now another of the issues) This amount will not even cover half of the medical bills for my child that have started to accumulate over the last two months (mind you I only received $100 for last month and the month before). I have had to put off my child's OT for the fact that I cannot pay the bill in full for another month or longer. NPC says that what he pays is enough for everything (clothing, shoes, activities, and toys) but my child attends a charter school with uniforms, which he never pitched in to purchase (my mother bought all my child's school needs). NCP also states that the medication for my child's ADHD needs to be changed because he becomes mopey for about an hour, he continues to say this even after I explained that the medication slows my child's thought process down to what is the norm for a child with ASD and that without the medication there is a potential for reversion and self harm. I did bring these concerns up with my child's ped. and he decided to lower the dose...since lowering the dosage there as been a little reversion. NCP states that his lawyer says that these two diagnosis will not affect the outcome of a visitation order, but I am sure NCP never told his "lawyer" that he refused to give my child his medication from time to time to see how it affected my child.

To sum all this up, does the two diagnosis have any sway in what will be done about visitation? Can NCP have CS dropped to just $200 a month without providing his portion of insurance and medical bill payment? Also is there anything I can do to get the NCP to understand what the doctors have said (save for sending the evaluation scores because I have done that already), and can I get a court order to make him take a class on caring for children with ASD even though he worked as a supervisor at a group home for adults with ASD?