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hi i am as my youngest step daughter would say the wicket step mom ...
that is what her mom has her callin me i have been with my husband six years now and she has always called me mom but the last 3 months she has said she hates my husband and i and never wants to see us agian we have three children and he also has a 12 year old frol her also ... and the 12 year old loves to come over also lived with us for a while till mom came and pulle dher out of school when we were making the youngest come over she would break things spit on us roll her eyes hit and more so finally my husband said she doesnt have to come cause all she was doin was hurting him and the rest of us .... well its christmas time and we asked her if she wanted to come for the 7 days and she said no i dont like yall and i dont want anything from yall the mom just smerked i dont know what to do i dont want to get gifts for a child that will just destroy them but i dont want to be the wicked step mom but my husband says just to let it go and she will have to learn  that  her mother was not doin right and that we love her please help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i dont know what to do on christmas thank you !!!!

i want to thankyou so much this will be a big help i cant wait to show here who is boss these kids need yo be stable the oldest was living here on here on free  will doin great loosin weight and then  the cazy had to yank her out of school now her weight is back up and she is always un happy and the youngest is so so mean i want to help them before it is to late thank you  

thank you i will

thank you so much my husband hasnt been doin anything because he wants to keep the piece because she keeps the kids anytime he stands up to her i told him until he does she will keep doin it ...i hope all this will help him relize he  has support and can get his kids without the crazy ex tellin him what to do ... in the papers it just says 1st and3rd weekend 6 pm on friday to 6pm on sunday it doesnt say any meeting spot or anything ... thank you so much for trying to help us

i dont quite  understand that but we have been even nice enough to go to her house and pick the kids up and we drive all the way there and she doesnt let them or if we call there is no answer........ its very difficult but tryin to help my husband he is such a great man ........

i cannot find the form sorry please help

thank you i will do that ...regarding the 7 year old they live with many many people and so mom is not left alone .. she is fine when mom not around but then mom will call  knowing it upsets her and she starts agian ...and mom says ask daddy if i can come get you my husband says no this is my weekend and it starts agian .....we dont want to make her hate us but four days out of the month isnt much .............

no we do not have custody of 11 year old it joint custody with mom with physical custody.... we are suppose to have them on the first and third weekend of each month ... but when things dont go her way she wants to keep them from us we love them so much and  want them to be stable and at this point nothing is stable in their life .... also the 7 yr old thinks it is up to her she said i am not coming over there and you cant make me !!! always was a daddys girl until this last year her mother has turned her to hating my husband and i both ..... the 11 yr old her mother says she is not likable and makes her basically raise her 7 yr old sister and i want them to not have resentment toward one another and at this point they hit one another and get in fist fight daily .... please help   i want to help my husband get a hold of things before it affects the kids for the rest of their life  ..........

 HI I NEED HELP I MET MY HUSBAND 6 YEARS AGO AND WE HAVE HAD AN ON GOING BATTLE WITH EX WIFE .. SHE THINKS SHE RUNS EVERYTHING HE HAS 2 GIRLS  11 AND 7 AND SHE LEFT HIM !!!WELL HE GOT WITH ME AND NOW IT IS WAR ... IF SHE SEE'S I HAVE SOMTHING SHE HOLDS THE KIDS MY HUSBAND IS A GREAT FATHER AND HUSBAND I HAD TWO CHILDREN ALSO WHEN I MET HIM AND HE HAS ADOPTED THEM WE JUST 7 MONTHS AGO HAD A BABY BOY .. WE ARE SUPPOSE TO HAVE THE KIDS ON THE FIRST AND THIRD WEEKEND OF THE MONTH IT NEVER HAPPENS SOMTHING ALWAYS COMES UP OR WHEN WE CALL TO COME GET THEM SHE DOESNT ANSWER AND TELLS THE KIDS DADDYS GOT HIS BOY NOW HE DOESNT WANT YOU .... THE 11 YR OLD IS 205 PDS SHE CAME TO LIVE WITH US AND I GOT HER TO 160 AND BUILD HER CONFIDENSE UP WELL 4 MONTHS WENT BUY MOM DIDNT CALL TO GET HER OR ANYTHING AND REFUSED US TO GET HIS 7 YR OLD WELL AFTER HURRICAN KATRINA ON HER ONLY WEEKEND TO HAVE HER SHE ABANDED HER AT OUR HOUSE WITH NO ONE HOME , NO POWER NO FOOD .. SO SHE COULD GO TO FLORDIA WITH FRIENDS ... WELL MY HUSBAND FILED CHARGES AND 11 YR OLD TOLD HER AND SHE WENT AND TOOK HER OUT OF SCHOOL WITH NO NOTICE AND KEPT HER AND NOW SAYING I CANT TALK TO THEM ON HER PHONE I AM NOT ALLOWED TO  PICK THEM UP AND IF  HE IS NOT HOME THEY CANT COME OVER  AND KEEPS PLANING STUFF ON OUR WEEKENDS ...
AND IS SAYING THE 7 YR OLD DOESNT WANT TO COME AND MAKIN HER CRY BY TELLIN HER MOMMY SAID YOU DONT HAVE TOO BUT DADDY IS MAKIN YOU  AND THEN TELLIN MY HUSBAND THIS DIVORCE IS HARD ON THE KIDS SHE WAS REMARRIED BUT JUST LEFT HER 2ND HUSBAND AND LEAVING WITH A HOUSE FULL OF METH HEADS WE DONT KNOW WHAT OUR RIGHTS ARE AND WHAT WE CAN DO SHE IS CONTROLLING MY HUSBAND TRYING TO MAKE HIM  I GUESS FEEL GUILTY AND THINKIN HE WILL COME BACK .. SHE SEE'S ALL HE GIVES ME AND GETS SO MADAND IT MAKES HIM SO MAD CAUSE IT IS HURTING ALL 5 OF OUR KIDS AND IT NOT THE KIDS FAULT THEY DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK PLEASE I KNOW THIS IS LONG AND TOUGH BUT I NEED  SOME HELP ON WHAT I CAN DO ATTORNEY'S ARE SO HIGH NOW ..AND CHRISTMAS IS NEAR AND THAT IS WHAT I AM AFFAID OF HER KEEPING THEM THEN AND I THINK SHE WILL..... HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!