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The dentist bill says she paid $417, she sent a note saying she paid $450 and the EOB says it should be $269. Which one is it??/?
the dentist is within the network..

there was a previous balance owing i went thru the EOB and the bill and checked off the services the charges where all the same amount. She also send a receipt showing she paid the hospital $100 but it doesnt show dates or what was done to my daugher. IT just says payment of 100 was received.

I hate this when i send a bill its a complete bill

Mother called and said she had to take daughter to the dentist a few times and to the ER. I told her send me completed bill so i can reimburse my share 75%.
She sent me the bill from the dentist showing her payment and she sent me the explanation of benefits the insurance sent her.

The explanation of benefits says she shouldve been charged $270 but she paid the dentist $450. Thats a big difference which one am i paying out of the bill or the insurance explanation of benefits?

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"expenses not covered by health insurance for the children will be paid 75% by petitioner and 25% by respondent" This is the only part in the whole Court Order that even mentions health insurance.

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So just so i understand this correctly, since the Court Order says nothing about the medical insurance. "expenses not covered by health insurance for the children will be paid 75% by petitioner and 25% by respondent"

1.Each parent has to have insurance for the child they have the custody of?

2. We can get reimbursement from the other parent for the copays, prescription and any amt due not paid by the insurance?

When i send mother a bill for our daughter that lives here, i send her the total bill showing what i paid and what the insurance paid.
3. Can i ask that she does the same when sending me a bill?

In re: to modification i was talking about Child Support for both kids, i am pretty certain mother is making more $$$ , we are probably at 60%/40% BUT b/c neither one of us lives in AZ, i am scared it would be a mess.

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Good Morning!

Court order was entered in Az, Mother lives in Fl and father lives in PA. WE have split custody. Court order states in regards to medical
"expenses not covered by health insurance for the children will be paid 75% by petitioner and 25% by respondent" I am the petitioner in this court order.

1.If the child is under steparent insurance, can you still ask the NCP for their share of the expense?

2. Can it still be used to calculate support if i was to ask for modification?

3. How complicated would it get if i was to request a modification considering that neither one lives in AZ?

4. As stated in the CO, does that include premiums, copay and medical prescriptions?

THe biggest problem i am seeing right know is DENTAL, mother send me an estimate of work that was to be done to my daughter, the job was over $1200. I told mother to send me a completed bill showing what she paid and what the insurance paid. Which is the same way i send her bill when i need reimbursement. Apparently she has taking daughter 2x to the dentist and out of pocket she's had to pay over $400 each time. I can't believe that we try so hard to get good insurance for my kids and always very attentive to their "preventive care" yet the $$$ i save with the ones that live with me, i have to spend with the one that lives with Mother. My daughter is only 8 and there's always been something wrong with her teeth. At this point i am just a bit frustrated. Mother was shocked when i told her she had to pay 25% for the daughter that lives with me. Apparantely she thinks i have to pay for everything for the one that lives here  and 75% for the one  that lives with her, Great way of interpreting Court Order!!!

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Over the past 4 years i have noticed that when daughter is with CP she always wets the bed. When she comes down to see us she never does it.
She 9 years old and she;s told me herself that in CP house she wears a diaper at night b/c she pees in bed. She's been with for different spans of time from 1-6 weeks, and this has never been a problem. ICP parent never mentioned anything until we went to her hometown. She asked us if daughter wet the bed while she was with us, we told her no. She said its a constant issue with her that she's had buy new matresses a few times.
 think this is odd, if she had a bed wetting problem , wouldnt she do it everywhere???

thats what i tought too, i was very shocked when i saw that note. I understand girls like biys and vice versa. I have 2 other girls and they talk to me about boys that they thing are cute but i tought this was very innapropriate.

8 year old Daughter is here for 1/2 the summer. Her older sister showed me a note she had written during her ride in the airplane. it was  a letter to a boy stating she loved him so much that we she wants to marry him so she can have sex with him!!!!!!

I think shes too young to be speaking that way

Am i overrecting??? Should i say something to her mother about it?

I have a daughter in the south an in the beginnig of the year i sent out the Request for Record letter w/envelopes. I email the teachers and other school personnel. The problem i have is that the CP works in the same school district, so its harder for me to get "accurate info".Perfect example my daughters teacher last year was reluctant to share any info re: daughter. I sent a nasty gram to the principal and i finally saw a report card. DAughter had straight A's last year, this year it turns out she's below her grade level in tha imp subjects. I dont know how this happened but her teacher this year is very concerned!!!!

Obviously if i didnt keep in touch i wouldnt know any of this, b/c according to CP "she doing great"