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We live in NC but I really think that in my state's case it's really what county you live in.  Example.  mY best friend has an ex husband who doesn't pay his cs payments on time.  She actually has to take his butt to court and the judge has to lock him up b4 he'll hand over any amount of money.    

I would think that he could go down to the court house and file a motion.  They can't deny someone the opportunity to go to court.

wow that sounds so familiar!  DH was in arrears one months worth of 557.40 and during the month that I was trying to catch up we were served a contempt of court by the child support enforcement agency stating we have to pay it by august 30 AND go to court, oh yeah don't forget to bring a pay stub so we can see if we can screw you even more!  I swear I understand child support but I'd be more willing to pay that much towards bills or clothes day care costs etc than just handing over a friggin check so she can do with as she sees fit!

I just received this email from ANCPR.com and thought ya'll might be interested. the link is provided below



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So how did things work out??  Or are you still waiting to hear?

I hope I didn't come across bitchy...I think that child support issues is really difficult for everyone.  Especially the ones who are so close yet still are getting screwed!  I am so happy for you guys, there isn't a day that I don't think "C is only 14 years away from child support ending"  I know that may sound horrible but he is my youngest step kid and at the tender age of 4 I have already begun counting down the years to his high school graduation!  

I'd say this guy has no care for you or your living sittuation.  From what you have told us it sounds like you need to ditch this guy cause he is willing to be screwed and let you be screwed in the process

I live in NC.  My Dh pays child support for his 2 kids.  We fell behind and are trying desparately to catch up on the child support. ( He had to switch jobs) if he is in NC and he is working than you can call NC's child support enforcement and request that they garnish his wages and it's automatically taken out of his check (however often he gets one) and will also make him pay more for the back pay that he owes.  If you need these #'s just let me know.  I believe that a man needs to pay his child support, they were there when it all came about too, so they are also responsible. And word of advice hound them every day until they know your voice on the phone, know your full name and your MPI#.  Don't give them any slack cause then they think they can do nothing and get away with it just like your ex.

I'm not sure about it being retroactive, however because of the change of jobs (ex's) I'd definitely file for Child support adjustments.  Also to modify the medical because of your DH's inability to work per doctors orders I'd say go for temporary medical releif and to split bills in half.  He may even seek her covering the medical insurance that may have to wait until the new sign up time comes along.  Definitely file to get an adjustment and good luck I'll be praying for you guys.

I don't think you should have to pay $300 for the ring $150 is sufficiant, $200 for the pics are about accurate but your hubby should only pay $100.  Medical bills are a neccessary evil.

The ring's original price isn't really excessive.  That was the going rate 5 years ago when I graduated

The graduation party throw one anyway.  You'll only have that opportunity 1 time for this son seeing that he isn't going to college (right?) Try and ignore the BM's antics she's just trying to piss ya'll off.  

As father I would think he could call up to the school and talk to the principal tell a very short version all objective and factual only. Keep feelings out of it and reserve at least one seat for himself.  (even if he has to pay, that usually is an option if the tickets you get aren't enough you usually can pay to get extras)  

YOu can file based on the fact SS isn't going to college but it may not work   Good luck and sorry you live in NY for this reason exactly!