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Lol who's the troll?

I used to figure the only reason you continue to come here is to cover your tracks while you abuse your children, as in the case I posted. Trolls from dnet have been known to do such.

[p]"Used to."   So what are your theories about my husband filing first, and giving me sole custody?  Obviously because I'm such a rotten mother.

[p]To be truthful, the article you posted was good.  I hope it does help people.  That's what we're all here for.  This is not a popularity contest.  If we share our experiences, maybe we can help people.  JayC, you obviously missed the point that as a custiodial mother, I am being PAS'd by their father.  That started while we were still married.  I've mentioned that here.  I haven't been on divorcenet in years.  I cruise through every once in a while, but I will not reregister.

[p]You flamed MY pants?  You are unreal.  Bring it on dumbass! ( I know Brent- but grrrrrr)  I have always been StPaulieGirl.  I do not EVER use multiple handles.   August 2001?  Post it.

Money spent on boring court records could been better spent on beer....

Also, just a personal observation... Children tend to be "diagnosed" ADHD two to 4 years following a divorce when there is a high conflict on the part of one or both parents.


[p]Good point, but never discount the "genetic quotient".  Hook up with psychos, repent at leisure.  

[p]My son was in diapers, and learned how to disable the childproof things on the wall outlets.   After he popped them off, he'd stick something into the outlet, which would then blow out all the power in the house.  I have been through hell with this child, who is now 16.  Lock up your daughters, because he's good looking :(

I've never heard of Concerta.  My son was on Celexa and then Paxil.  While he was on drugs, he was running around clucking like a chicken...in his boxer shorts....in the front yard.  That was three years ago.  I took him off his meds.  If he's going to act like an asshole, he might as well be a healthy asshole.  Pardon the language.

I think that it's better to drop out of the school system, rather than submit our kids to arbitrary, drug induced behavioral control.

I know.  Don't you love psychobabble?  The article dosesn't address ways to cope with abuse...reality wise.  The humiliation is almost as bad as the pain.  Maybe worse...

Abuse encompasses more than heads going through drywall.  It can be a systematic campaign to demoralize your victim through mental abuse.  Never discount mental abuse.  Unfortunately, mental abuse is almost impossible to prove.  I'm talking about guys who are abused.  I'm sorry to have no sympathy towards David Gest and Liza Minelli, as imo, they're an aberration.  I'm sorry, but Liz Taylor and Michael Jackson went to their wedding.

[p]Unfortunately, this is 100% true. They are the weapon of choice in custody battles, along with false allegations of sexual abuse.

[p]Lots of dead people are laughing at this thread.  If your witch of an ex spouse/gf/mother of your children actually accused you of sexually molesting your kids, then give me her email address.  We've got stomach flu, and I'd like to spread the joy....

Oh my goodness!  I will say more prayers for you, and ((big hugs))!

I hope God blesses you, and your family, during this holiday season:)

Hang on tight, Kitty!

Everyone....this whole thing between JayC and I started about 3(maybe 4) years ago on divorcenet.   I have a personal problem with people whom I perceive as vindictive, hateful, and judgemental.  If this makes me "small", then so be it.  I have a long memory, Brent.  Bile and hate isn't going to solve any of our problems.  I get a kneejerk reaction to some people....it makes me react rather harshly.  Maybe JayC has a right to still be this angry.  The rest of us take time out and have fun.  I'd like to know when the last time this guy has actually laughed?  

Brent is right about me taking my personal animosity towards JayC, and posting a hateful comment.  I am not helping anyone on this site by posting the comments that I did.

I apologize for acting like a brat, instead of a grownup....

[p]In this case, both parents were equally to blame. They both worked overtime trying to make the kids hate the other one. It was heart breaking.

[p]Who pays for that?  The kids.  I didn't realize he was in his 30's.  I've never heard about this kind of problem before.  Failure to thrive is seen in small children.  How sad...