Hi all,
Stepson is 18 years old, graduated in June from high school, living in his own apartment, working full time, etc. etc.
We have our appt. with a lawyer to find out about support obligations. I am hoping we can get everything out in the open in our 1/2 hour consultation to find out what our options are.
What things should I bring with me to this appt?? I want to be prepared. I will bring a copy of DH's support order.
The custodial parents has sent us some bills that are over and above child support and she is asking us to help her with them, we feel they are not needs just wants for the child, we are not sure they are our responsibility, can we bring these and find out if we are obligated to pay them or not?
We are in NY state by the way. And if they tell us support continues until the child is 21 years old, can we have the support order changed to reflect the child receiving the money, not the mother. He has not lived under his mother's roof since July, 2004. From July 2004 through June 2005 he lived with h is girlfriend and her parents, in June 2005 he and the girlfriend moved into their own apartment together.
Thanks for any help.
**Crossing our fingers that the end is near**
Mom2boys
Stepson is 18 years old, graduated in June from high school, living in his own apartment, working full time, etc. etc.
We have our appt. with a lawyer to find out about support obligations. I am hoping we can get everything out in the open in our 1/2 hour consultation to find out what our options are.
What things should I bring with me to this appt?? I want to be prepared. I will bring a copy of DH's support order.
The custodial parents has sent us some bills that are over and above child support and she is asking us to help her with them, we feel they are not needs just wants for the child, we are not sure they are our responsibility, can we bring these and find out if we are obligated to pay them or not?
We are in NY state by the way. And if they tell us support continues until the child is 21 years old, can we have the support order changed to reflect the child receiving the money, not the mother. He has not lived under his mother's roof since July, 2004. From July 2004 through June 2005 he lived with h is girlfriend and her parents, in June 2005 he and the girlfriend moved into their own apartment together.
Thanks for any help.
**Crossing our fingers that the end is near**
Mom2boys