Your right its not 100% about the 2 days late, its more about her blatant refusal to follow the court order and we know if it was the other way around she would have cancelled the visitation completely.
No, we did not contact her on the 1st because we needed to see if she would even attempt to follow the court order. Yes, I do agree November 1st is a late date to notify the type of transportation. And yes there was quite a price difference with the 2 days difference.
As to the flights, we are not the ones that stated the airports, that was the judge who determined which airport for each party. So the next question is, how do we follow the court order the way things stand, there really isn't any way to do it. Either the flights go from Dallas to St. Louis instead of Moline (which only really inconveniences us, not her) or the flight is made with a layover from Dallas to Moline, which we KNOW the ex will refuse to do. That is one reason we had to go to court in the first place. The judge kind of put us in a no-win situation in this case. The ex insisted the flights be non-stop and that is the way TX works. So the judge determined which airports when. We did argue to keep the flights out of Chicago because of the bad weather.
I do figure we will end up in court.
Update: DH just reached ex and she is p****d, but agreed to fly out of Dallas, but refuses to put it in writing. Now we will send her the ticket information 10 days prior to the flight (we will probably do it 11 days out) and will expect a huge arguement when she gets the flight times. The court order says we get visitation starting 6pm the day school lets out for the holiday and we found a flight Friday night at 8pm and she gets into us at 9:30pm.
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No, we did not contact her on the 1st because we needed to see if she would even attempt to follow the court order. Yes, I do agree November 1st is a late date to notify the type of transportation. And yes there was quite a price difference with the 2 days difference.
As to the flights, we are not the ones that stated the airports, that was the judge who determined which airport for each party. So the next question is, how do we follow the court order the way things stand, there really isn't any way to do it. Either the flights go from Dallas to St. Louis instead of Moline (which only really inconveniences us, not her) or the flight is made with a layover from Dallas to Moline, which we KNOW the ex will refuse to do. That is one reason we had to go to court in the first place. The judge kind of put us in a no-win situation in this case. The ex insisted the flights be non-stop and that is the way TX works. So the judge determined which airports when. We did argue to keep the flights out of Chicago because of the bad weather.
I do figure we will end up in court.
Update: DH just reached ex and she is p****d, but agreed to fly out of Dallas, but refuses to put it in writing. Now we will send her the ticket information 10 days prior to the flight (we will probably do it 11 days out) and will expect a huge arguement when she gets the flight times. The court order says we get visitation starting 6pm the day school lets out for the holiday and we found a flight Friday night at 8pm and she gets into us at 9:30pm.
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