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You need to file for an injunction baring her from removing your son from the marital home NOW.

Use her lease signing as her intent to take the child from the home in your emergency custody petition.

Good luck!

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Kitty, just keep the end goal in mind and you and DS will get through this.  One day at a time and before you know it, this will be further and further behind you.

Your in our prayers!!

Got one too  - But I didnot mention the tshirts in mine - chain letter - but I will be sure to "THank" them for doing the right thing.

SD used to call her step dad - "myhisname", however DH never had the title of Dad since Mom refused to tell her that the man that called her and sent her gifts was her father.  Then at age 3.5, DH got out of the military and started attempting to see her on a 1x a month basis.  Mom refused to tell this child that DH was her father.  Finally, after she was found in contempt and she was made to turn over the child for 1 weekend a month, summer and holiday visitation, THEN the child started calling her stepdad - Daddy and DH was "hisname" or that man, or a poppie head, or whatever the child could translate moms bad feelings into.   The child even yelled at us that she only had one Dad and it was her stepfather, that my DH was never married to her mommy and that if he was, it was a huge mistake -(hmm, did mommy realize that meant she was teaching her child that she was a mistake as well)  We had to show the child pictures of her parents wedding, pictures with her mommy, Dad and half brother so that she would try to make it make sense.

The GAL even abmonished Mom for not encouraging the child to call DH Dad.  Well, it took a couple of visitations with her half brother but she know calls DH - Dad and her stepdad is "daddy".  Although he does not like it, it is better for her mental health.  We do not call this man daddy, we refer to him as "ourhisname".  the child has demaned that we call him daddy - we explain to her that we have fathers and therefore will call him by his name.

Yes this is hard for DH, but look at the emotional damage that it could do to the child -0 You and Dad need to talk to the child and find out what her feelings are - Read the article on her about Two Dads.

Good luck!

Can you email me through profiles and I will contact you tonight. I do not want to get into it on here.

Does anyone live near the Toledo area or Cleveland area of OH?  Father in need of help desperatly.

Thanks

I like the new forums too.  I am just trying to find the things that I liked best at the other site.

:-)

In the last forum, I was able to move from board to board easily.  However I can't figure out how to do that in this new forum.  I keep having to go back to the TOP and then click again.

Is there a way to go from one directly to another without having to go to the bottom of the page and choose the next one?  Is there someway that could be moved to the top?

Thanks