Good Morning Soc,
If you remember my last post, BM had our daughter on Adderall, well we were able to get her oof of it, and BM has given me our daughter for an undisclosed amount of time..
I had taken our daughter to a pediatrician and he said that she was not AD/HD, Igot her inrolled in speech therapy, Ocupational therapy, Behavioral modification therapy, and socialization therapy classes..
She has been diagnosed with a Learning disorder, so BM decided to let me and my wife have her for as long as we needed to get this done, as according to her she does not have the time to work with our daughter, because of work etc..
So now we have had her for a little over two weeks now, she has and is showing great improvement in all of her therapies, BM had her this weekend and when I picked our daughter up this Sunday she has reverted back to where she was when we started therapy..
Anyway onto the questions..
1) None of this therapy is covered by insurance, at a rate of $2000.00 a month.. Divorce decree states we are to split any medical costs that is not covered by insurance.. I have documentation that shows that our daughter does indeed need this therapy, and BM has agreeded to this therapy..
So shouldn't she be legaly responseable for half of the $2000.00 a month??
2) This intense therapy is to go on untill the fall at minimum to get her ready for Kindergarten.. So we will have her atleast untill September..
Do you think that this would be grounds for a modification of child support due to the fact that we have daughter full time and she has our son full time??
3)Do you think we should wait the three months to go for custody, or should we wait untill August or September??
4) Any other suggestions on what we should do??
Thanks in advance for the help..
DUH, I'm not so dumb, I've been practicing!!!!
If you remember my last post, BM had our daughter on Adderall, well we were able to get her oof of it, and BM has given me our daughter for an undisclosed amount of time..
I had taken our daughter to a pediatrician and he said that she was not AD/HD, Igot her inrolled in speech therapy, Ocupational therapy, Behavioral modification therapy, and socialization therapy classes..
She has been diagnosed with a Learning disorder, so BM decided to let me and my wife have her for as long as we needed to get this done, as according to her she does not have the time to work with our daughter, because of work etc..
So now we have had her for a little over two weeks now, she has and is showing great improvement in all of her therapies, BM had her this weekend and when I picked our daughter up this Sunday she has reverted back to where she was when we started therapy..
Anyway onto the questions..
1) None of this therapy is covered by insurance, at a rate of $2000.00 a month.. Divorce decree states we are to split any medical costs that is not covered by insurance.. I have documentation that shows that our daughter does indeed need this therapy, and BM has agreeded to this therapy..
So shouldn't she be legaly responseable for half of the $2000.00 a month??
2) This intense therapy is to go on untill the fall at minimum to get her ready for Kindergarten.. So we will have her atleast untill September..
Do you think that this would be grounds for a modification of child support due to the fact that we have daughter full time and she has our son full time??
3)Do you think we should wait the three months to go for custody, or should we wait untill August or September??
4) Any other suggestions on what we should do??
Thanks in advance for the help..
DUH, I'm not so dumb, I've been practicing!!!!