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WHERE THE HELL DID THIS COME FROM? No one said she denied visitation! No one said anything about alienation!

This letter would be patronizing and an insult.

A simple comment about how much she appreciates his being a good father, in no way, slaps him in the face.

MY WORDS, READ CAREFULLY, DON'T LOSE TRACK....

I SAID 'BUILD BETTER COMMUNICATION' OFFER MORE TIME, not a damned thing about shared. MORE ACCESS TO SCHOOL EVENTS.

You are putting words in my mounth, and I don't like it...

I do think if this father is so wonderful to earn a letter, then he should have shared. My hats off to daddy!

"Children learn what they live"

"Children learn what they live"

Every since these two started posting, one simple remark turns into a major issue. OVER WHAT? IF THEY DON'T LIKE THE RESPONSES, GO SOMEWHERE ELSE.

Gender has very seldom been an issue here at Sparc. Once in a while, we get someone who tries to pull it in, but for the most part there have not been too many problems. And I am tried of all this twisting and manipulation. Starting to sound like my PBFH.

If everyone would try to read the entire post, keep in mind that all of us have different views. I think so much has been misread and misinterpreted.

I am moving on, these two can battle it out on their own. I have had enough arguing.

My question is, if they have so much time to post, who's watching the kids?

"Children learn what they live"

"Don't twist ... just read and comprehend"

I don't think she understands this...


"Children learn what they live"

I would like to stay and argue some more, but I have to go to work to pay my CS...

Fathers are shown to be more understanding and cooperative to the NCP, probably because they have 'been there' more often. And while we are on the subject, What about the NCP moms who don't pay support?

Let's not make this a gender issue.

< hijacked with the conspiracy theories of CS money and people telling her to offer more time instead of thanking him for the money.>

THIS INFORMATION WAS BASED ON FACTS.

"Children learn what they live"

Again, you asume too much. Your remarks were made in general to all of us here. The original question was in regard to sending a letter to her ex.

Until you are a father denied of time spent with your children, YOU DO NOT HAVE A CLUE. Some of us put the children before the money.



Well some of us do or we would not be here...

P.S. Not all CS is spent on the kids




"Children learn what they live"

Another issue is the 'deadbeat'. This is targeted at NCP's who don't pay support. How about the CP's who deny access of the children to the NCP'S?

If it were me, I would just casually mention how glad you are that you BOTH can work together in being parents. Offer him a chance to express what he would like. More time with the children or more access to school events. Open the door for better communication.>

WHAT PART OF THIS DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND?

You apparently have some major issues, get help!

And I will give you a clue, CS is nothing more then a form of maintence.

If you can not make an educated post, don't bother...

"Children learn what they live"

I posted the individual States and the coordinator for each State.
Look in the Fathers Issues.

You wrote exactly how I feel about visitation and support issues. Well explained. Sometimes my brain is mush...

I think that if both parnets walked into a Family Court on equal ground, there would be a lot less conflict. Which I feel, is better for the children.

"Children learn what they live"