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States receive a percentage on CS collected.

"Children learn what they live"

Many here would be more then willing to continue paying CS. What we want is equal access and equal say in decision making in our children's lives. That for me, is the bottom line.

I personally think that when the BM has the child, she pays, when the BF has the child, he pays. Both parents need to take responsibility, not putting all financial responsibilty on just one parent.

Many, not all,  CP's stay at home and collect. Not willing to work or keep the NCP involved in the child's life.

CS is nothing more then revenue for the State. Of course there are also many cases where one of the parents just don't care and walk away. But when you have a case where BOTH parents want equal, then this should be shared responsibilty right on down the line.

Another issue is the 'deadbeat'. This is targeted at NCP's who don't pay support. How about the CP's who deny access of the children to the NCP'S?

If it were me, I would just casually mention how glad you are that you BOTH can work together in being parents. Offer him a chance to express what he would like. More time with the children or more access to school events. Open the door for better communication.

So much conflict could be avoided if BOTH parents walked into court on Equal ground. Shared parenting from the start, until proven otherwise.

"Children learn what they live"

Wonderful!

Best way to acknowledge a good NCP is to offer Shared. If it were you, would that not be what you would want?

Children require financial, spirtual, emotional, educational, medical, you get the idea. FROM BOTH PARENTS.

Good letter, but bottom line, it is an insult. Most NCP's would appreciate a fair shake at being a parent and becoming more involved.
Not a letter...  

Just a thought, would he testify in court on your behalf? Might make the difference.

"Children learn what they live"

It certainly could not hurt! Asking you to sustain further injury is unfair.
Can you talk with an attorney about this?
WTF!

This must be a wonderful doctor, not many would have done this.

"Children learn what they live"

"Biohag",  has a nice ring to it...

Love the karma!

"Children learn what they live"

And keep on fighting for more and more and more... you get the idea!

"Children learn what they live"

You are moving on with your life and doing what is best for you. I wish you all the best and hope things start going your way.

Like many NCP, money is not the issue. It is time with the kids that is most valued.

With the career choice you made, would this not allow you to move closer to your daughter?

Ever hear the saying 'what goes around, comes around?' Your time will come...

"Children learn what they live"

"Children learn what they live"