Just a few brief details: Court date is in January to change custody from BM to me. Custody evaluation was requested by GAL and approved by judge in August.
I got the court order last week, only because I kept hounding my attorney. It is possible that BM has not seen the order. CO states that it is BM & BD responsibility to arrange appointments with the evaluator for themselves and child.
I have met with evaluator once briefly, and have another appt scheduled. BM has not done anything so far, so I am scrambling to arrange child's appointment ASAP.
The only way to get child to the appt is to tell BM the date & time for her to take him, or I can not return him to her house at the scheduled time on one of our weekends. Any thoughts or advice on that?
Myself and GAL were hoping to expose some of BM's major flaws with the evaluation.
Would it be better or worse if BM just never goes to the eval?
If BM doesn't participate in eval, will that give them a reason to reschedule the court date again?
I got the court order last week, only because I kept hounding my attorney. It is possible that BM has not seen the order. CO states that it is BM & BD responsibility to arrange appointments with the evaluator for themselves and child.
I have met with evaluator once briefly, and have another appt scheduled. BM has not done anything so far, so I am scrambling to arrange child's appointment ASAP.
The only way to get child to the appt is to tell BM the date & time for her to take him, or I can not return him to her house at the scheduled time on one of our weekends. Any thoughts or advice on that?
Myself and GAL were hoping to expose some of BM's major flaws with the evaluation.
Would it be better or worse if BM just never goes to the eval?
If BM doesn't participate in eval, will that give them a reason to reschedule the court date again?