>>I'm just wondering if he gets the visitation rights is he allowed to do as he pleases with them
Yes. Would you want him dictating your time?
>>...can he just leave our daughter with his mother or sister for them to watch her b/c he wants to go out etc?
Yes. Would you want him to deny your family the right to babysit / visit?
>>He's filing for visitations b/c HE wants to spend time with his daughter so why would it be right for him to go off and do as he pleases when that time is suppose to be for him and his daughter?
>>I mean the way I see it is he's suppose to be spending time with her if he's not even using his time why not be home with her mother.
Again, it is THIER time, not yours. If they choose to play with each other every second, or watch movies the whole time, or sit at opposite corners of a room and stare at each other, or spend the entire time with other people....it is not your choice.
Try to keep in mind that just because you and him have different ideas of parenting / visiting, neither has to be wrong, just different.
Thank goodness your daughter has a father who wants to be involved in her life. She is a lucky girl!
LittleBit's Dad
Yes. Would you want him dictating your time?
>>...can he just leave our daughter with his mother or sister for them to watch her b/c he wants to go out etc?
Yes. Would you want him to deny your family the right to babysit / visit?
>>He's filing for visitations b/c HE wants to spend time with his daughter so why would it be right for him to go off and do as he pleases when that time is suppose to be for him and his daughter?
>>I mean the way I see it is he's suppose to be spending time with her if he's not even using his time why not be home with her mother.
Again, it is THIER time, not yours. If they choose to play with each other every second, or watch movies the whole time, or sit at opposite corners of a room and stare at each other, or spend the entire time with other people....it is not your choice.
Try to keep in mind that just because you and him have different ideas of parenting / visiting, neither has to be wrong, just different.
Thank goodness your daughter has a father who wants to be involved in her life. She is a lucky girl!
LittleBit's Dad