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Ocean, you are very thoughtful and have given me good advice, but I probably did not give you enough information.

Regarding your points 3 and 4

3) The child is presently visiting with me in the State of Virginia, and he is on my insurance plan. Based on what you said, I will try to book an appointment with a therapist as soon as possible.

4) The child only communicates with me concerning remarks made by CP in the State of Virginia during his visitation time, and so far, never over the phone. I would like to record conversations with the minor child, in person, and not the mother at this point.

Any ideas?

Thanks again

My State of Residence is Virginia, but the child resides in Florida.

The child came to visit me at my residence and out of the blue stated the following:

"My mommy says the reason that my mom divorced you is because you did mean things to her".

Having my hands tied with multiple legal issues pertaining to this case, I did not really have to get into reading about PAS.

I have quite a few links pertaining to PAS, so please do not cut and paste a link. Additionally, I like to handle all matters pro se, so please do not suggest that I go and see an attorney. I am just a child support payor just like you, so that would naturally inhibit my ability to pay an attorney.

I would like to have answers to the following questions if possible:

1) How should I react to these comments?

2) How could comments made by my child help me obtain custody?

3) How do I get a PAS evaluation through my insurance company?

4) I am sure that this is subject to State law, but can I record my child's conversations with me? If so, do I need his verbal consent?

Thanks