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#21
Father's Issues / RE: Is All Hope Lost?
Jun 14, 2006, 08:01:28 PM
I know when I was pro se with my ex I petiton the courts for a moditfication(sp?) of visititions. The only problem is I am a women. But I can feel for you my husband has a b---- as an ex wife and because he has outdoor plumbing he gets screwed everytime he walks into the court room.
#22
Father's Issues / RE: Little More on this as well
Jun 14, 2006, 06:20:20 PM
Walls in not the word. BIAS to fathers is more like it. I have made great steps today with the help of my wife. The denist first denied me acess to my daughters records then I phoned the Dentist Society in the county of where the office is and guess what I am getting now? Just a phone call from them to the denist was enough to scare them a little. I believe my daughter is needing all the dental work done for she wants straight teeth before she is no longer on my GOOD insurance and she does not have to pay for it. My mission is to find out if it is medically needed or she just wants to look pretty.
The part that makes me sick out of all this is the only time my daughter calls me is when she wants her birthday money, work on her truck, or just money. I did not realize I was an ATM mechine.

But she turns 18 in Sept. of this yr. I still have to pay $700 in support until June of next yr. for she is still in school. Working full time thou for she is on a work release program. But I just know this is not going to end well.

For the county this is in, if you are the NCP you are basicaly screwed and the CP can do whatever they want to do even if they are court order to do something it doesn't matter. I have lost thousands of dollars because of that.
#23
Father's Issues / Form from SPARC
Jun 14, 2006, 03:48:47 PM
I have sent a copy of the form "obtaining my child's medical records" to all of my daughter's doctor's. Do I also need to send a copy or a summary of what I have sent to my daughters doctors to her mother, who has custody of her. But I provide insurance and am responsable for half of bill.
#24
After soeaking with my insurance company and found out that since I am the card holder for her insurance they should give me a copy. In which I contacted all doctors by phone and am receiving copies of medical records. Now the dentist is the only one refusing to send them to me ans said it was between my ex and me. And that they did not care if I was the one who carried the insurance and did not care what the IL. Statues state. So I am needing to get my daughters dential records now.
Any ideas on how???????????
#25
Father's Issues / RE: Is All Hope Lost?
Jun 14, 2006, 08:01:34 PM
I know when I was pro se with my ex I petiton the courts for a moditfication(sp?) of visititions. The only problem is I am a women. But I can feel for you my husband has a b---- as an ex wife and because he has outdoor plumbing he gets screwed everytime he walks into the court room.
#26
Father's Issues / RE: Is All Hope Lost?
Jun 14, 2006, 08:01:28 PM
I know when I was pro se with my ex I petiton the courts for a moditfication(sp?) of visititions. The only problem is I am a women. But I can feel for you my husband has a b---- as an ex wife and because he has outdoor plumbing he gets screwed everytime he walks into the court room.
#27
Father's Issues / RE: Little More on this as well
Jun 14, 2006, 06:20:20 PM
Walls in not the word. BIAS to fathers is more like it. I have made great steps today with the help of my wife. The denist first denied me acess to my daughters records then I phoned the Dentist Society in the county of where the office is and guess what I am getting now? Just a phone call from them to the denist was enough to scare them a little. I believe my daughter is needing all the dental work done for she wants straight teeth before she is no longer on my GOOD insurance and she does not have to pay for it. My mission is to find out if it is medically needed or she just wants to look pretty.
The part that makes me sick out of all this is the only time my daughter calls me is when she wants her birthday money, work on her truck, or just money. I did not realize I was an ATM mechine.

But she turns 18 in Sept. of this yr. I still have to pay $700 in support until June of next yr. for she is still in school. Working full time thou for she is on a work release program. But I just know this is not going to end well.

For the county this is in, if you are the NCP you are basicaly screwed and the CP can do whatever they want to do even if they are court order to do something it doesn't matter. I have lost thousands of dollars because of that.
#28
Father's Issues / Form from SPARC
Jun 14, 2006, 03:48:47 PM
I have sent a copy of the form "obtaining my child's medical records" to all of my daughter's doctor's. Do I also need to send a copy or a summary of what I have sent to my daughters doctors to her mother, who has custody of her. But I provide insurance and am responsable for half of bill.
#29
After soeaking with my insurance company and found out that since I am the card holder for her insurance they should give me a copy. In which I contacted all doctors by phone and am receiving copies of medical records. Now the dentist is the only one refusing to send them to me ans said it was between my ex and me. And that they did not care if I was the one who carried the insurance and did not care what the IL. Statues state. So I am needing to get my daughters dential records now.
Any ideas on how???????????
#30
I am court order to pay half of all my daughter's dental and medical bills. The problem is the court told my ex to get them to me w/in a timely matter. But she does not. When I call the doctors office they tell me they have to have approval from her to send them to me. I am the one providing insurance on her, but they denie me the bills???