CSW is certifed social worker, sorry, I did not realize that meant anything else.
The stip states the evaluator must inform BF via email of BM's non-attendance, that is how we know. We have an email stating she was going to therapy up until April. She states she did not realize that was the terms but at the end of the transcript the judge asked her if she understood and was comfortable with all the terms and if she wanted to speak it over with her attorney more, which she replied she understood and was agreeable.
Her other excuse is she has an appointment with someone for Thursday who was not approved by the evaluator which the stip states must be done, so to BM that is continuing therapy on her terms.
She must regularly attended therapy until she is discharged by the therapist and the evaluator is to notify us via email of when she resumes therapy so the 50/50 schedule can resume.
I meant the judge allowed the stip to linger on record until April-May 2006 when she finally signed it, sorry, I was multi-tasking when I wrote that.
We have filed so many OSC throughout our trial but the court system we were in front off just let everything linger. Unfortunately, if we file aother OSC in this jurisdiction, BF must take off work again. He does not get paid for days off and after 40+ days of court his boss is fed up and to tell you the truth we need a life, we need time for ourselves and vacations and so forth. I can't spend my life in a court anymore.
I am very angry at how the court has treated us, they allowed our lives to be controlled and dragged through the mud for a very, very long time. The were inable to act. We were at the end of our trial and they pressured us to settle and now those same experts say go back to court.
BM has never followed a court order and is incapable of it. She makes the children lie about every detail of their lives with her and she has made some extremely poor decision jeopardizing these kids. We stepped up to the plate, fought a fight that can't be won. You could not have had a better case then we did. I guess we just need to figure out a way to disengage and let her do all the terrible things she does and go about our lives with as little affect as possible
The stip states the evaluator must inform BF via email of BM's non-attendance, that is how we know. We have an email stating she was going to therapy up until April. She states she did not realize that was the terms but at the end of the transcript the judge asked her if she understood and was comfortable with all the terms and if she wanted to speak it over with her attorney more, which she replied she understood and was agreeable.
Her other excuse is she has an appointment with someone for Thursday who was not approved by the evaluator which the stip states must be done, so to BM that is continuing therapy on her terms.
She must regularly attended therapy until she is discharged by the therapist and the evaluator is to notify us via email of when she resumes therapy so the 50/50 schedule can resume.
I meant the judge allowed the stip to linger on record until April-May 2006 when she finally signed it, sorry, I was multi-tasking when I wrote that.
We have filed so many OSC throughout our trial but the court system we were in front off just let everything linger. Unfortunately, if we file aother OSC in this jurisdiction, BF must take off work again. He does not get paid for days off and after 40+ days of court his boss is fed up and to tell you the truth we need a life, we need time for ourselves and vacations and so forth. I can't spend my life in a court anymore.
I am very angry at how the court has treated us, they allowed our lives to be controlled and dragged through the mud for a very, very long time. The were inable to act. We were at the end of our trial and they pressured us to settle and now those same experts say go back to court.
BM has never followed a court order and is incapable of it. She makes the children lie about every detail of their lives with her and she has made some extremely poor decision jeopardizing these kids. We stepped up to the plate, fought a fight that can't be won. You could not have had a better case then we did. I guess we just need to figure out a way to disengage and let her do all the terrible things she does and go about our lives with as little affect as possible