My ex and I have verbally agreed to some clarifications in our current divorce decree concerning visitation. These changes will all affect me positively.
Since I know she is not to happy about the changes and because I'm afraid she will try to back out on one of the agreements, I have decided to put them in writing.
I am going to ask her to sign with the agreement with a notary, but I'm pretty sure she won't agree to this. As an alternate I will be sending the letter to her certified mail with return receipt.
I have seen some posts on here where it appears a copy is then sent to the courthouse to be placed in your file. How exactly does this work? If I send a copy to the courthouse, won't it have to be signed by both of us? Will it have to be notarized to be legally binding?
We have clarified the following:
transportaion plan
holiday schedule
weekend visitation
summer visitation
We haven't made any changes, but we have agreed to make past verbal agreements null and void and to go strictly by the divorce decree concerning holidays, weekends and summer. I guess my main concern is transportation. It was not addressed in the original decree and we have agreed on a plan that I want to have some 'weight' on proving when and if she decides it's not convenient for her again.
Any suggestions and advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks, IM
Since I know she is not to happy about the changes and because I'm afraid she will try to back out on one of the agreements, I have decided to put them in writing.
I am going to ask her to sign with the agreement with a notary, but I'm pretty sure she won't agree to this. As an alternate I will be sending the letter to her certified mail with return receipt.
I have seen some posts on here where it appears a copy is then sent to the courthouse to be placed in your file. How exactly does this work? If I send a copy to the courthouse, won't it have to be signed by both of us? Will it have to be notarized to be legally binding?
We have clarified the following:
transportaion plan
holiday schedule
weekend visitation
summer visitation
We haven't made any changes, but we have agreed to make past verbal agreements null and void and to go strictly by the divorce decree concerning holidays, weekends and summer. I guess my main concern is transportation. It was not addressed in the original decree and we have agreed on a plan that I want to have some 'weight' on proving when and if she decides it's not convenient for her again.
Any suggestions and advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks, IM