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It might be here as a man...but it ain't.  If any woman would have posted this bs on this website, she would have been chewed up and spat out like fodder.

Pretty clever to come here as a "man" and try to sway the group to think like a fem.

I've been here for a long time....seen this happen before.

This board has 4000 members...you do the math. If 4000 people have had trouble with the system, you can bet that number is less than 1% of the total population having troubles with the current system.

I think you are the confused one.  And why did you come here again?  To perpetuate the entitlement mindset?

You are failing.  Why not go to a board that likes to hang NCP's for non maintaining a lifestyle for the sake of the children. I am sure there are plenty of fems out there that would LOVE your POV...

I did. I polled and you saw the results.  Why do you think this board was formed anyway? Cuz everything is working so well?

NOT.

Right back at ya...I haven't seen one person in here besides you make any sort of statement saying the system works well.

So share your "unverifiable anecdotal stories" for the love of the system all you want...it's your time and your opinion, as for the rest of us.

Accurate 4 year old data.....cripes.

Prove it doesn't.

Results are in for the poll..

Of the 12 people that responded, 9 of them agreed the system doesn't work...so that was 75%.

Of the 12 people that responded, 2 of them felt the system worked well.  
So what's that...about 17%.

And one person felt it worked most of the time, so that was about 8%.

I am sure if more posters would have voted the 90% would have been easily reached. 75% of the existing isn't too far either.

So as you can see, most people on these boards find the current system DOES NOT work for them.

to file first.  It will be up to her to prove it. BTDT.

You are spot on with your statements and findings....

In your case, which I feel might be rather isolated.  I've heard so many stories where they sit on the money owed, or continue to take too much money for an already reduced CS order.

My own brother took out a loan to get his cars unbooted, even though he didn't owe a dime extra, because of screw up on the books.  Interestingly enough, it took them nearly 3 weeks to get off their asses and unboot his cars, so in the meantime, neither him or his wife had anything to drive. His biohag moved to another state, in the meantime, so he had no way to get to see his kids unless he put a rental car on his credit card.

Did they send him a refund for overpayment??? Oh no.  They told him they would credit his account on the other end!  Now, you tell me how well that worked...

And I have some stories of my very own...affecting me as a CP and an NCP...but they don't matter as much as those that are in the mire right now.