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I'm not saying that she has done nothing wrong - but IN THIS INSTANCE, she is at least making an attempt to cooperate.  I personally do not see what signing a paper stating the facts of what happened as being any big deal.

Now - so far on "mental torture" - - - maybe in some things she has done in the past, but in asking for a paper to be signed saying she cooperated in changing the visitation?   Doesn't go down as abuse, PAS, or anything else.  Other actions on her part may - but in my opinion, this doesn't.

Mountain out of a molehill - - -and there seems to be plenty of mountains to deal with without creating additional ones.

No - I don't know this whole situation - and that perhaps is a good thing as it gives a different perspective.

Obviously, there are issues here - but I really don't see this as much of a "storm".  She IS cooperating....it is your BF that is asking her to be flexible and change and she is AGREEING!  

So he signs something that says "Due to work requirement, I was unable to exercise my scheduled time from 6-8pm on Sept xx,2004.  Ex-wife cooperated and agreed to allow me to make this time up by extending the weekend visitation to xxxxxxx"  

What's the problem with that?  It is simply a statement of fact.  If she is uncooperative 50 times, and only cooperative this once - I don't think that piece of paper is going to mean much.  But it may help in some small way to get to a more cooperative stance.

I got to say though, compared to stories I've read and issues I've had - - - this seems more of a very small annoyance rather than a storm!

Just curious - how do you know the kids are "devasted" by this, or even that she had told them that visitation had changed?