I have a court date with my ex to set my parenting time and other issues. One issue is who drives the kids back and forth. You indicated I only have a case with this issue if there was no previous order for it and there is not.
I do 100% of the driving (we live 40 miles apart). I'm asking for her to do 50% of the driving for weekend and holiday exchanges. I will continue to do 100% for midweek visits.
I will have an attorney in court and at this point my ex will not. She received the letter about going to court from my attorney today. She left me a voicemail saying she will prove in court she can not afford to drive. I have a letter from her attorney (which she's since fired) saying she won't drive because 'she doesn't want to.'
She works part time at a fast food restaurant and received child support from me. We have a daughter in school and one who will start and all day, everyday preschool in January. Which to me indicates she can work more than she does. She somehow is getting the preschool for free.
1. Is not being able to afford to drive a valid defense?
2. If yes, how do I defend? Can I show ways she spends her money 'excessively?'
Thanks.
I do 100% of the driving (we live 40 miles apart). I'm asking for her to do 50% of the driving for weekend and holiday exchanges. I will continue to do 100% for midweek visits.
I will have an attorney in court and at this point my ex will not. She received the letter about going to court from my attorney today. She left me a voicemail saying she will prove in court she can not afford to drive. I have a letter from her attorney (which she's since fired) saying she won't drive because 'she doesn't want to.'
She works part time at a fast food restaurant and received child support from me. We have a daughter in school and one who will start and all day, everyday preschool in January. Which to me indicates she can work more than she does. She somehow is getting the preschool for free.
1. Is not being able to afford to drive a valid defense?
2. If yes, how do I defend? Can I show ways she spends her money 'excessively?'
Thanks.