>Here's the situation. A year ago, my ex and her husband
>relocated to Colorado with my two sons 12, 15. Husband
>originates from Colorado. I fought the relocation which went
>to trial. Basically came down to a custody battle. I didn't
>prevail. Washington law gives a presumption of rights to
>move. Economics reasons and career were her premise. In
>reality, the principle motive was control.
>Because of my prior involvement with my boys, I was granted
>liberal visitation: 8 weeks summer, most/shared school breaks
>and three-day weekends (when no break occurs during that
>month). Travel expenses are split in half.
>I'm missing them terribly despite the move. Current terms are
>not enough for me. I saw only "two' of their football games.
>They were here, I never missed a practice.
>I'm contemplating a move to CO...but at what risk is the
>question. The trial totally wiped out available assets sans
>my retirement.
>Ex is extraordinarily obstinate, self-centered, and will fight
>over the least trivial details.
>If I move to Colorado, will I have to negotiate another
>Parenting Plan, Child Support, and grief all over again? This
>took a year to figure out for the relocation with attorneys.
>Does anyone out there have advice?
My suggestion is to move. You will probably have to negotiate another parenting plan. I would get one that says she can't move again. I don't know if travel costs were considered when calculating child support (IMO, the parent who moves away is the one who should pay all of the costs of visitation), if they were, you may end up paying more. But I think that you would go by the Colorado guidelines (an attorney could tell you for sure). Good luck.
>relocated to Colorado with my two sons 12, 15. Husband
>originates from Colorado. I fought the relocation which went
>to trial. Basically came down to a custody battle. I didn't
>prevail. Washington law gives a presumption of rights to
>move. Economics reasons and career were her premise. In
>reality, the principle motive was control.
>Because of my prior involvement with my boys, I was granted
>liberal visitation: 8 weeks summer, most/shared school breaks
>and three-day weekends (when no break occurs during that
>month). Travel expenses are split in half.
>I'm missing them terribly despite the move. Current terms are
>not enough for me. I saw only "two' of their football games.
>They were here, I never missed a practice.
>I'm contemplating a move to CO...but at what risk is the
>question. The trial totally wiped out available assets sans
>my retirement.
>Ex is extraordinarily obstinate, self-centered, and will fight
>over the least trivial details.
>If I move to Colorado, will I have to negotiate another
>Parenting Plan, Child Support, and grief all over again? This
>took a year to figure out for the relocation with attorneys.
>Does anyone out there have advice?
My suggestion is to move. You will probably have to negotiate another parenting plan. I would get one that says she can't move again. I don't know if travel costs were considered when calculating child support (IMO, the parent who moves away is the one who should pay all of the costs of visitation), if they were, you may end up paying more. But I think that you would go by the Colorado guidelines (an attorney could tell you for sure). Good luck.