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You need to look at the date the court order was issued. From that date very next weekend  is the begining of every other weekend. So make sure that you are attempting to excersize your visitation on the correct weekend. Otherwise your ex can argue that you are attempting to excersize visitiation on a weekend that is not court ordered.
Am I right Soc?

If you'd like to post in "father's issues" I can share with you my extensive experience with contempt pro se regarding denied visitation.

I am the NCP, case is in MN.

The CP and I have agreed that child support should be modified and have agreed on an amount for monthly support.

The CP would like to offer the courts an agreement in hopes that they will approve and modify without an investigation.

Can you give me an example of an agreement that we could present the court?

Thanks for your help.

If you'd like to post in "father's issues" I can share with you my extensive experience with contempt pro se regarding denied visitation.

I am the NCP, case is in MN.

The CP and I have agreed that child support should be modified and have agreed on an amount for monthly support.

The CP would like to offer the courts an agreement in hopes that they will approve and modify without an investigation.

Can you give me an example of an agreement that we could present the court?

Thanks for your help.

It's too late for me like I stated I allready own a home with joint tenatship(both of our names are on the loan and title).

To save you from looking up the law, Where would I look up the info?

What specifically would I look for?

Would I be able to ask for another motion for contempt based on the three other times she did not bring my daughter to the drop off site?

These three other times were not in the first motion because they occurred after the notices were served. These other times were not addressed during the last motion hearing.

What do I do specifically to end my relationship with the lawyer that I had come into court with me?

Is there a letter or something I should send her?

I do not want to be charged if the CP's lawyer contacts her.

Thanks for your help, it is really appreciated.

In regard to your third statement: My case is in MN. The CP is in MN. I am the NCP and live in WI. I own a home with joint tenantship with my fiance.
Providing the circumstance were ripe for  the senerio you described happen to me?

How scary!

Case is in MN. I am the NCP. I recently was in court asking for a motion of contempt and parenting time assisstance due to the CP not bring my daughter to the drop off for court ordered parenting time. The order was specific and everything was in order. There really should have been no reason that the NCP would not have been found in contempt and parenting time reinstated.

Because I was nervous I hired a father's a family law lawyer to come into court to help represent myself and to help show the contempt.

I did have police reports as witnessess and nasty letters written by the CP to myself stating I would never see my daughter again.

I really was what appeared to be an "open/shut" case.

My lawyer talked with the CP's lawyer when the judge asked if they could come to an agreement.

I wanted to see my daughter asap and I agreed to settle. However I did not talk with my wife before doing so and later realized I had made a big mistake. She has been my "legal counsel" ,researching this site, helping me make posts, gathering all the info and was more informed than I.

Honestly I didn't even realize what I was doing. I had told the lawyer I hired her to help with the contempt case but she encoured me to settle.

I agreed on record in front of the judge to something I did not want yo do. Now my lawyer tells me there is nothing I can do. She said she will be forwarding the agreement for me to sign.

If I do not sign the agreement what would happen?

Is there any way I can get a new motion hearing and not agree to what the CP wanted?

Sorry to ask this question again. I can't find the discussion anywhere where we previously discussed this issue. I find it to be very important and relevant to many people.

Case is in MN. I have visitation only. There is nothing in the court order that states I have to be the one to pick up my daughter, also there is nothing in the order that states I can appoint someone else.

Can I allow my fiance' (or wife or someone I appoint) to pick up my child?

In the previous post you stated no, but I can't find it. So I assume no one else can either.

 What is it called that I would ask the court for so I could appoint someone else to pick up my daughter?

Thanks for your paitence with me.