It seems to me that YOU didn't have the children's best interest in mind when you destroyed two families with your affair.
I fully understand how your STBX feels, her world has been totally decimated by the selfish acts of the person that she trusted most. How on earth can you think she would be able to trust that you have even the slightest care for your children when you destroyed their lives??
It doesn't matter what the issues were in the marriage YOU are 100% at fault for having an affair and now you want to continually throw your affair and the other woman in her face? You are a cruel and heartless man!!
Are there any other private schools in the area? Or perhaps it would be best for you and your affair partner move to a different area? Put YOUR children's needs first...or are you too selfish to do that?
I fully understand how your STBX feels, her world has been totally decimated by the selfish acts of the person that she trusted most. How on earth can you think she would be able to trust that you have even the slightest care for your children when you destroyed their lives??
It doesn't matter what the issues were in the marriage YOU are 100% at fault for having an affair and now you want to continually throw your affair and the other woman in her face? You are a cruel and heartless man!!
Are there any other private schools in the area? Or perhaps it would be best for you and your affair partner move to a different area? Put YOUR children's needs first...or are you too selfish to do that?