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A couple of questions.

How old is your child? Why was you given supervised visitation? Have you had any criminal record etc since last order? How long has it been since the entry of the last order?

i replied let me know if you don't get it.

you deserve the right to be informed on any counseling and any changes that takes place with your child, it appears that your ex is just trying to play on your mind.

Trust me i know this from great experiene and i'm the CP of a 10 yr old girl whom i've had custody of for 8 years and now that i'm asking for child support she's throwing up enforcement threats that are false, however we have a court date set on this issue soon and i have all the evidence and documentation to prove she has lied in her motion and has rec'd all the information she was entitled to get. do you have a method where we can communicate other than on here because i'm in the same boat as you.

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what is your goal when you state is it good or bad strategy wise to file a motion for contempt?

are you seeking custody? if so how long has custody been settled?

you are correct in most states there is a 3 year rule on the child support to stop the custodial parent from filling the courtrooms with motions.

What state do you live in?

Child support is a gender biased issue. I'm the custodial parent of my daughter who's almost 10 and i've raised her by myself since she was 2, yet her mother hasn't paid child support in 4 years and now that i'm "TRYING" to enforce it, she's now fighting for custody. so my point is who knows what the court will do when it comes to men and child support issues. if a man is deliquent on child support they can look at jail time, however if it's the mother the courts could care less.

If you ex is trying to get child support or more child support, do full discovery to see where her money is coming from, if it's fraud FIGHT for custody because the child doesn't need to be exposed to coruption.

just curious why has it taken so long to have a custody dispute settled?

have you had a home study? i'm not sure CS should be ordered if you are splitting time 50/50.

Soc.
my ex is now stalking me.

I've had custody for 10 years now that my atty has petitioned the courts for child support that my ex hasn't paid in 4 years. my ex wife is becoming ridiculous. She's emailing organizations within our community that she knows I'm part of asking about times I'll be there when I leave etc. my child plays sports in our town and she has emailed the organization we are part of for practice times dates etc. However, I coach her team and I've already supplied that information. She has even gone as far to email parents on our team asking personal questions about our team, when we will be at certain places and the times. I'm concern as to the welfare of my child. I'm concern as to the welfare of myself as well. she is also stalking me via the internet by accessing my credit report, mortgage, etc. I have proof that this has happened because she will be smart and email me harassing me about this and that.

1.   Can I get a protective order? if so what good do they do?
2.   I'm the CP can I get supervised visitation for her until the courts can rule on her mental state?
3.   I've feared her attempting to file for custody but these are the exact reason why she should not be granted custody. Do you agree being I've had my child for 10 yrs now.
4.             how would a judge view the stunts she's pulling?

Soc.

we have previously talked on here and I'm thinking about having my atty file a amended motion not only to get my ex to pay child support but also to go for full custody instead of joint that we currently have. My ex hasn't paid CS in over 4 yrs, she doesn't pay for any medical, clothing, school supplies absolutely nothing, she might call once a week at the most. Yet she thinks she should have custody back after 8 yrs.  my 1st ex wife and my 2nd are continuously harassing me. making despairing comments to my 10 yr old while she is visiting her mother. In the presence of my child whose 10 yrs old straight A student who can read very well on 6th grade level (she's in 4th right now), they email each other back and fourth and show the emails to her, talk negative about me on the phone etc in the presence of my child. The two ex's are placing my child from my 1st marriage into a bad situation by placing her in the middle.

1.  What do I have to prove to get full custody rather than joint which we currently have (I had custody for 8 strong years)

2  Can I get go after my two ex's for liable and slander (while I was married to my 2nd wife she never spoke to my 1st it only happened after she left) for making despairing comments about me to my child? I know it would be hard to prove but I have emails to confirm some.

3. can I get my ex's parental rights revoked?

 

Ref,

I think that is wonderful that your mom can now see. Sometimes in life we live with blinders on and can't see the forrest because of the trees. Just rest assured that you are your dad and your dad is you and he loves u same for your mom.

As you have read from some of my post I'm a custodial parent and have been raising my daughter all her life 10 yrs and 8 yrs with custody. I live in fear of her mother trying to take her away from me because I'm asking her to pay child support and I'm modifying our visitation schedule. But I'm doing it because our child has different things going on in her life, not to attack her mother but she can't see that. When I'm alone and sit and think about the next 8 yrs of my childs youth it brings me to tears. Just the other day I told a friend that when our daughter gratuates from high school/college or gets married. I can't wait until the day I can wrap my arms around her mother and we can both cry in happiness that our child has succeeded and done well in her hard and difficult life. I have never said look how great our daughter is doing because of "me" I say that she's doing good because our child has applied herself and done it herself. I think it's wonderful that your parents are finally getting along and doing well. it's only right for the children.

PS. I think you and Misto.. has great view points here on the post. At times I don't agree but both of your views are top.

Kitty your post is not accurate. For example in Texas joint custody is a given. You have to be a dead beat not to have joint custody. Joint custody is not 50/50 shared time. Joint Custody gives each parent the right to make decisions in the childs life.