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I have a recent court order whereby the judge ruled in my favor that I didn't have to produce certain documents such as my checking account statements thru discovery, mainly because I'm the custodial parent.

That being said my ex's atty has ignored the court order and ruling and has sent subpoena's to my banks to try to get this information. What can I do to this atty for breaching and violating a court order? how will this affect my ex's case in her attempt to try to regain custody that I've had for 9+ yrs? How will the court see her's atty failure to comply with the order and leave it alone?

an attorney cannot hold you hostage from going to seek another atty. It doesn't matter if you owe the 1st one or not. you can demand your entire file and advise him if he doesn't provide that to you, you will report him to the state bar. Don't let the atty put fear in you. Many attys will make you think that if you switch for one time it will hurt your case. It WON'T if you feel like you need to get a new atty do so, get your file. However it will cost $ to get a new atty

an attorney cannot hold you hostage from going to seek another atty. It doesn't matter if you owe the 1st one or not. you can demand your entire file and advise him if he doesn't provide that to you, you will report him to the state bar. Don't let the atty put fear in you. Many attys will make you think that if you switch for one time it will hurt your case. It WON'T if you feel like you need to get a new atty do so, get your file. However it will cost $ to get a new atty

what type of personality disorder did the psychologist determine that she had?

Did she take the MMPI-2 test?

what type of personality disorder did the psychologist determine that she had?

Did she take the MMPI-2 test?

what type of personality disorder does the mother have?

who recommended custody the psychologist or the judge?

if the judge made the ruling it should be on court transcripts thus you should be able to finalize this. You can order transcripts from the courts for a small fee.

I agree with your comment (1) but (2) not all the way.  

My 2nd ex wife is brining in a friend to support her claims only because I'm friends with her husband whom she is divorced from. In fact I've taken her daughter to the park, zoo, out to eat, movies, bike ridding, swimming, school functions with my daughter. So if she uses that person to try to make me look bad does it make sense to you to show that "hey if he was did that why did you let your child be soley in his care and take her placed etc".

This is the only hope that ex #1 would ever regain custody is with something like this. They keep digging and asking for discovery information which we have complied and they are coming up with nothing. So they are out on a fishing expedition trying to snag something.

Mist,
I think you are the best on here. My followup question is if someone claims that a person hit them and they don't have any medical or police reports. How seriously is the claim taken in court?

My 2nd ex wife is friends with a neighbor who got a divorce and I'm friends with her ex husband. So if they were to team with my 1st ex wife wouldn't a blind judge be able to see thru the mud when there wasn't any type of police or medical reports to support her claims? the fact is I never hit my ex but they can't find anything on me to try to regain custody of my daughter and they are searching for things.

Thanks,
John


my situation sounds like Jerry Springer doesn't it LOL

posters

as many of you know my story. I've had custody of my child for 9 yrs and she's 10 ½ yrs old. my 1st ex and I divorced when she was 1 ½. I obtained custody and the mother basically just signed her over to me. I got remarried and it didn't last and my 2nd wife and I were divorced last August 2006. A year ago I filed a petition to try to get my daughters mother to pay child support and she turned it into a HOT custody battle. My 1st ex and 2nd ex never liked eachother while we were married. Now they are best friends.

My 2nd ex and I never had any domestic violence or anything never had any police over. We never hit one another we just didn't get along. Here's my problem now. My 2nd ex wife is teaming with my 1st and I've heard thru the grapevine that they are going to CLAIM domestic violence and that I've hit her. In fact my 2nd ex wife is getting a friend of her's involved saying I did. However, I have many and many of neighbors, mutual friends etc that can testify that I never did hit her nor did there appear that there was any sort of violence.  No police reports, no medical reports, no pictures of anything because it never happened. Does anyone on the board see this as a huge problem before the judge?
Doesn't she have to have evidence that something like this happened?

Thanks
John

Thanks
I was just curious because we are still waiting on ours to be done. As you know i've had my child all her life 10 1/2 yrs and 9+ of custody. I know that it's going to come back with something on both of ours since all humans have SOMETHING crazy about them but wasn't forsure what the court really considers crazy!