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I had childrens tylenol,juice,pedialyte,all the things you use when your child has a cold,fever.also my mom,childs g-mom has been a nurse for 30 yrs,so we are not stupid

I only have the temp visits. nothing else has been worked thru or ordered. no court date yet. I assume I dont have any legal rights yet.

yes was there something I did wrong here or is this just another way of stopping visitation? BM  and her parents have made it clear they dont want this child to have a father. She has an older child who doesnt have a father either even though hes paying CS

picked son up for visit sat at 9 like ordered , he is 2.  He had a runny nose and watery eyes. That night he had 102 temp. gave tylenol and fever went down. had some cough. next am he acted usual,playing jumping on bed like all 2 yr olds. he was fine the rest of day except no appitite till around 4pm when fever was 103. i forgot i called mom at her work  at 11a to let her know child had fever night befoe but he seemed fine now except for cold. she said ok. so at 5p I called her parents where she lives with child to tell them i was bringing him home because he was ill. had him home by 5:30. They took him to the ER. where he was admitted overnite with dehydration. RSV. came home next day They didnt tell me I found out on my own. Now she is taking our family to court to have visits terminated due to lack of medical care. They never wanted me to have visits anyway. Since court not done yet we cant have him treated yet. Thats why he was taken home so they could get treatment. just another thing to have to deal with.

age of child-2,   she lives in the next town 10 miles,same school district,   I began to do alot of crazy things like breaking things because I could never do anything right in her eyes,very critical, and it was making me crazy. I have been much better emotionally since I dont have to be with her, although its sad becouse I really did love her and tried to please her but she was making me crazy and almost had everyone convinced that I was crazy.    I do have written what I would like to have, at least 3 days per week.  Also want joint legal but she wants full legal.  She wants me to have no rights. I do trust most of her decision and probably would not interfere but I dont want to give up rights.   Yes I have a lawyer

[HIGHLIGHT=#ffffff]In Illinois, what are chances of getting 50/50? Not married but had child more than she did first year. Has slacked off since we broke up and she moved home with parents. Now she trying to say I am not fit .Have court this month. Have temp order of every weekend and every wed supervised.[/HIGHLIGHT]

x gf put PO on me after I filed for visitation schedule. child 22 mo. have been in childs life 3-4x wk since birth. now haven't seen for 2 wks. Its a hesaid/she said situation. no police report. she lied. anyway, now apparently wants to make some kind of deal tomorrow, day before court to answer to PO. what do you think of a women who would possibly use a PO to get her way? Is this legal? She is either fearful or she is not. of cource she put child on PO too.

My son is 22 mon. have practically raised him 1st year. BM either in school,needs to study, or working. never married. would sometimes have him 4-5 days at a time. Now getting less and less, esp since she moved home with her parents 8 mon ago. she has a 5 yr old that her father pretty wells controls and I feel thats its going to happen again with mine. Started court procedings for regular visits instead of only when she says. She then started asking for supervised visits because I have had anger issues in the past. This didn't seem to bother her when I had him more than she did. She doesn't need me now as her folks will babysit. Any way tho temp the judge didn't order supervised. We were to continue as we are till mediation done. By the way I am not a women beater just break things in the past. Anyway now she has went to court and got a restraining order for her and my son. Ican't see him at all. most of the stuff she told the judge were past things and a recent outright lie that I broke her necklace. While she was in court getting  a order of protection I had our son. I bet the judge didn't know this. What do I do in this situation?